There is this gul whom I met 9 months ago .she already have a boyfriend .we became friends.with the passage of time we came so close dat we started having sex.at some point of time I felt dat she is in love with me but we never spoke about it.now I am in love with this gul I really like her n I told her about my feelings.but my approach was casual .she used to talk about her boyfriend also.but then her behavior started changing n one day I spoke to her about the relation but she never answered. Finally I asked her I don’t want to drag this relation this way.if u have some feelings for me u sud tell me .then she said she is confused .and now she is staying with her boyfriend but we r still in touch.i called her but becoz of her bf she is not able to call me or message me . i want her back please suggest somethin? and also i met her last friday in a club n again i asked her shall i wait for u ,she said i dont noe .she said if i want to wait its my wish pls tell me wat is she up to.
2006-11-21 05:20:42 · 5 answers · asked by shadab k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sex always complicate things and I agree that you shouldn't have had sex with her especially if she is still in a relationship. She is confused and living with her b/f so there is bu so much you can do. I would not allow her to treat me this way. If I had sex with someone with whom I had feelings for, I would want to be with them. If there was no possible way this person could be with me or was confused about being with me, I would leave them alone until they make up their mind. I know, easier said than done. But she is in a relationship and most times that means that she is off limits. If she really wanted to be with you, she would end her relation with her current b/f. But if you don't mind being used and being kept on a leash, then go right ahead but in the long run you will get tired of it. You deserve to be with someone who is available and who can dedicate themselves to being with you and only you. You have a lot to consider and alot to think about on this one. If you keep allowing her to tag you along, she will keep doing it.
2006-11-21 05:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave this girl alone. She wants you to wait, that's why she said "If you want to". She likes to have an extra on the side, but her BF is a lot more into steady relationships, so in his jealousy he's trying everything he can to keep her from getting outta line. She likes having you around because you'll put up with her having a boyfriend. If she wanted a relationship she would have left her other boy a long time ago. She is playing games, and games hurt. Get a steady girl to devote your heart to and stick to her.
2006-11-21 13:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by CheezyYumYums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some said she is using you some said leave her alone even another said she is playing you.
I think she is respecting you.If she don't bring up the fact that you've had sex then I don't think she
really wants to go with you.It sounds to me like she just don't know how to tell you no with out hurting your feeling's.Wait for a few month's then try again.Maybe she will dump the other guy if she don't then move on .Good luck my Friend.
2006-11-21 14:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know that is a tough one... but I realley think that you shouldn't of had sex with her, that was realley pushin it man! Now oyu should stay with her just to make it right. Sex isn't just some thing you so and then never see that person again.. it was desighned for marrige and that only that was a sin, you need to pray and ask Jesus for forgivness and turn your life over to him!! You are living a wicked life style and it ain't wicked sweet =[]
2006-11-21 13:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by hamrool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey she is using you. If she wanted you she would of left her b/f. If she did leave him for you she will cheat on you. Once a cheat always a cheat
Why are you willing to share her? go and find a single girl
2006-11-21 13:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by multiflowercolour 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋