is this human nature to belittle someone who is good to you? why can't people be good, honest and helpful?
2006-11-21 05:11:09 · 16 answers · asked by AIRY 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I don't know why, but it seems that there are many people who simply enjoy hurting others. I suspect it stems from them feeling powerless and insecure, so they get a small charge to their own egos when they can make someone else feel bad.
There are, also, others who simply take advantage of people - they see goodness and kindness as a kind of weakness they can exploit for their own means.
Don't let this turn YOU bitter, though. Remember to tell yourself that those people, in the end, will suffer for it when they find they lack solid, real and loving friendships in their lives.
2006-11-21 05:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people are different, especially human relations. Some people have a different frame of right and wrong. Sometimes on the recieving end of an conversation, you may misinterpret the other's actions. Such as snubbing, shouting, hand signals, body signals. Where in fact, that is how the person talks, or how the person was raised up. They don't always mean harm to someone else. Thats just how they are. They help you at a different way than how you help them.
Of course this doesn't apply to everyone, because some actually rude and bad, even if you help them or care for them. They will always be instinctively bad, the reasons are unknown to me. Figuring out the difference can be somewhat difficult. Just keep in mind that some people communicate differently than the way you think what is right. So if someone doesn't thank you or give appreciation, just be proud that you have done good, without the thought of recieving any gratification. Because you sometimes don't know who you are helping.
2006-11-21 13:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Chance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it it tough to be good in this world. coz we live in bad world. You cannot expect it. But if you think you are trying to be good and ppl not responding and you still want to be good. Best is avoide them. Talking less is also good. You learn more good things when you talk less. You will have lots of time to learn many things in life.
But still help the person who is not responding to you. Then they will try to come to know you well. Atleast then, they will change themself.They will try to be good as you.
Since human have every wishes and likefull in there life. They don;t want to lose it at anycost, eventhough they think it is wrong.
That is why those people are not good. Only those people will suffer a lot in life. They will come to know when they suffer. If they did not change then. I wish they are not humans.!!
2006-11-21 14:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this only happens in the United State.
Our Elders had always told us to be polite to the whites at school so they would respect us. Our elders always warned us to watch our actions because it will reflect how the White men judge our hole community.
We follow the direction of our elders but we were constantly spit at in school. The Media (St. Paul Pioneer Press) were even making racial jokes at us. We don't eat dog but the Pioneer Press were running prints that we love eating dogs in 1979-1983.
After we stood up and start kicking as..ses all those jokes went away!!!
wow!!
Just like the US foreign policy in the Middle East and Southeast Asia.
Must be a culture problem.
2006-11-21 13:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been asking this question all of my life!
Some people may pick up body language from you that reminds them of someone they didn't like, so they assume you are just like the person they disliked.
Other people may just be stressed out by the wears and tears of modern day life, so they take it out on whoever's available.
I'm sure there are other reasons for some; I'm still searching.
2006-11-21 13:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Brigid O' Somebody 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words my young friend Free Will. It is the nature of the flesh to hate and want to belittle you if they do then abate that which is
( in a sense) evil and cling to that which is good ...and i know from experience it is much easier asaid than done but pray for stregnth and guidance and you will recieve it "if any man ask of me a fish...shall i give him a serpent...etc,etc,... GOD speed and may his blessings and love be over you all.
2006-11-21 13:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by jmwaffle420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz they r idiots n also bcuz there are ppl like u! never be good to those u are rude to u. Those kinda ppl will never realize that how easy and heartwarming it is to be honest and helpful. So why be good to them?
2006-11-21 13:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Avatari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people are rude because they weren't raised to act any differently, or they had a lack of discipline growing up. Many are rude and bad because of their own insecurity,
2006-11-21 13:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Big Rick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you're good to them they think you've got something up your sleeve.
Current HUman Nature!
2006-11-21 14:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe they were bullied before and it makes them feel good to bully others...sadly I get bullied alot and that is the answer that people tell me. Try not to take it to heart.
Either they were bullied or just jerks. You meet people like that everywhere you go.
2006-11-21 13:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋