My boyfriend cheated on me and the way I found out was the girl called my phone and asked how I knew him well since then he has been acting real funny like how he was when I 1st thought he was cheating and I feel he is what should I do he never asks to see me anymore or take me out anywhere every time I bring up the fact that I barely trust him he gets real mad and says..."If your gonna question me we dont need to be together" so do you think he is still cheating??? The only time he does call me if he calls me is at 2:30 in the morning and then sometimes he doesnt even call I call him...Alot of times he has his phone off and tells me it was charging what do I do??? Stay or go???? please help somebody.....I'm confused
2006-11-21 05:04:52 · 14 answers · asked by doubleloops1988@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go. He's right: ."If your gonna question me we dont need to be together"-- which basically means put up or shut up. He's a loser.
2006-11-21 05:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, honey. Get away from him. I know that isn't what you want to hear---believe me, especially near the holidays, but you are in for a lot of heart ache ahead if you don't. He is without feeling and he's already really showing you he doesn't care. You deserve better and if you don't think so, then you can punish yourself--or let him do it for you---because he sure will. And btw, phones can be ON and charging too, you know.
2006-11-21 05:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by hot_italian_empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him maybe you should leave before it gets any deeper you can do better or maybe do some self evaluation and figure out what you want in a relationship and wait till that comes along Good Luck
2006-11-21 05:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by BLADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read what you just wrote and pretend it was ur best friend who wrote it. Of course you should just get rid of him! ..."If your gonna question me we dont need to be together" He doesnt sound like he really wants to be with you or respects you. There are billions of boys in the world!! Why waste your time with a jerk?
2006-11-21 05:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by PeAcHeS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's probably cheating and hasn't the guts to tell you that it's pretty much over between the two of you. He's just stringing you along. Definitely go.
2006-11-21 05:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on girl. What is so confusing?
The fact that you fell for a liar and player is nothing to be confused about.
He has already told you in not so many words.
If your smart you would dump him and fast.
He is disrespecting you and treating you like your stupid.
Come on...phone charging???
Really???
2006-11-21 05:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have to ask this question, he probably is. And one should never give a cheater a second chance. when one cheats, it just means that you dont matter that much to them, and they dont care if you get hurt. that doesnt seem like a good boyfriend to me
2006-11-21 05:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥chiodosluv♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't confusing, its blatantly obvious he is cheating on you, and playing you, and being disrespectful to you. Why are you jumping through hoops for this jerk? Why are you calling him when it is so glaringly obvious he does not want you around. Get your self respect back and dump this loser. Good luck.
2006-11-21 05:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on you once he can always do it again.when a guy sheats the first time he learns from the mistakes he made.not the mistake of cheating but how he let you find out..as time goes by he'll get sneakier and sneakier.theres always that chance go with your gut.
2006-11-21 05:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by b a b y : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like he's using you. You need to find someone who will treat you right and be faithful. He's definitely hiding something from you.
2006-11-21 05:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by wish2bwriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋