I have a rather weird figure, im a size UK 12. I have a flat stomach but all my fat is in my arms and shoulders. My shoulders are kind off broad and my arms are chubby. Strapless dresses often make me look really fat, dresses with strap also make me look fat because they show the fat on each side of the strap, halterneck sometimes look nice depending on how wide the strap around the neck is. I have not tried off the shoulder, but i have heard its good for broad shoulders that are fat. Anyone have any advice?? I would really appreciate it :) Thanx
2006-11-21 04:42:09 · 7 answers · asked by Zee 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
That's easier than you think. You want to emphasis your waist and hide your arms, or at least keep attention off of them.
Yes, off the shoulder is great for disguising upper arms, but they can sometimes add width to your shoulders. Similar to the halter, you have to make sure that the material is wide enough to balance out, the more narrow the fabric, the wider you will look in comparison, while wider fabrics will make you look smaller.
Look for a V-Neck to bring the attention in, and away from your arms, which will also make your shoulders look more narrow, and keep the attention going towards your little waistline. A portriat neckline would br great here. It's not quite off the shoulders, dips into a V at the front, and usually has some kind of detailing at the point to keep the eye moving in and down.
You could also add an illusion sleeve (sheer fabric, either detailed or plain) with an off the shoulder dress to hide the rest of your arms. A bell (flares at wrist) or caplet (flares below elbow) sleeve would work great for this. The wide hem will make your own arm seem smaller.
The look for gowns with a fitted waistline to show off your middle. A basque or antebellum waist would be great for you, the point would keep the eye inward, and off your arms. Plus, it's a very slimming style on most women.
Then I would get a A-line or tulip skirt with just enough fullness to balence your top out. A sheath or column gown can make your top look heavier, while going too full with a ballgown might make you look heavy all over.
Just a few style examples so you know what these things might look like in a gown.
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/vendor/detail/131578?ff=Bride&f=neckline%3AOff-the-shoulder&max=neckline&offset=3&page=1
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/vendor/detail/117268?ff=Bride&f=neckline%3AOff-the-shoulder&max=neckline&offset=29&page=3
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/vendor/detail/118515?ff=Bride&f=neckline%3AOff-the-shoulder&max=neckline&offset=41&page=4
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/vendor/detail/118630?ff=Bride&f=neckline%3AOff-the-shoulder&max=neckline&offset=112&page=10
2006-11-21 05:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably go with a halter dress if I were you. You could try finding a dress with sleeves. Or wear a shawl. David's Bridal has some cute little, white bolero jackets that you could wear over the dress. I know it sounds a little weird, but try it first before you judge. It looked a lot better than i thought it would. It's small and short.
2006-11-21 05:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Gummybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that if you think your arms and shoulders look fat you should weght train to get them looking toned. You want to feel your best on your wedding day and your arms are going to be seen no matter what kind of dress you wear. Arms are one of the easiest parts of the body to tone. If you eat a high protein low carb diet it will help you with cutting fat and gaining muscle.
2006-11-21 04:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by azcutie2005 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What looks good on one person might not suit another of the same size and/or shape. Part of the fun of planning a wedding is trying on wedding dresses! Go try on as many styles and shapes as you can find until YOU are happy with the results! Make a day of it with your Mom or your friends. I'm sure whatever you pick, you will look beautiful! Congratulations and Good Luck!!
2006-11-21 04:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by bugged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt look sexy on your wedding day. You should look beautiful!! Try gettign a vail to cover up your arms and shoulders
2006-11-21 04:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by MRz.Nels0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on your price range here are a few nice ones.
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2637&prodgroup=123
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2293&prodgroup=127
2006-11-21 04:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Gingeroo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wearing a shawl could also help, a veil would help too...congrats!!
2006-11-21 04:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋