i have a problem with wanting sex all the time i am a 37 year old male and love and think i have the most beautiful woman and she turns me on just looking at her or walking next to her.even her smell does it for me.
2006-11-21 04:41:13 · 10 answers · asked by happy man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your wife is into having sex with you all the time, then you've got your perfect match and should have a great time.
If she doesn't want it as often as you, I don't think it's a question of being "wrong", it's just that you have an issue in that your desire for frequency is not in line with hers. Most married people are into monogamy, so you're expected to get all your sexual needs fulfilled by her.
Talk openly with your wife about your desire for frequency, and that you understand that she doesn't want sexual contact as frequently as you do. Maybe she can agree that you could use porn / masturbation to help take the edge off so you don't feel keyed up all the time?
2006-11-21 04:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by steve d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but to expect sex all the time is unrealistic. I'm sure that your beautiful wife would like some cuddling some times or even just a little slap on the butt and telling her how grateful you are that she is in your life without having to lay down. Sex is wonderful in a loving relationship but there is much more also and besides by not expecting it always you'll be surprised at how much you will receive naturally if you are a loving and compassionate man.
2006-11-21 04:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to want sex from your spouse. It is wrong to expect it.
She is a human being, and is therefore granted certain inalienable rights. She owns her body, and no part of marriage grants you the right to force her into anything (not saying you are). Either she isn't as sexual as you are, or she is having other problems that is reducing her sex drive (both sexes suffer from this, but especially women). First rule of marriage is communication. Help her with her other problems without mentioning sex. Be patient.
If she just plain isn't into constant sex, then get a good picture of her and take of it on your own once in a while (don't use someone elses picture or porn movies cuz that will cause other issues).
2006-11-21 04:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by raptoro104 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to expect sex from your spouse all the time but its highly unlikely that you will get it. Sometimes women just want to be held and felt loved. Make her know how much you appreciate her in other ways other than by sex. Trust me she will love you for it.
2006-11-21 06:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very sweet that you love your wife so much. But, you have to also respect her choices. Of course it's not wrong to want or be sexually attracted to your partner but expecting it is a different story. Marriage isn't all about sex & so it's not something you should EXPECT from her. It's something you should share with her and if you are constantly thinking about it, let her know she turns you on with everything she does, flatter her. She'll appreciate it.
2006-11-21 04:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by DiVenanzo™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting sex is not wrong, expecting it is. I mean we all know we cant just sit around and have sex 24/7 and there are times people are tired, have something on their mind, dont feel good or just dont feel in the mood. Wanting sex is fine as long as she wants it too. Dont ever expect anything.
2006-11-21 04:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it relatively is not incorrect to choose on that. a guy ought to be much less vulnerable to maintain at it for any of right here motives: a million. He gets older and his intercourse rigidity isn't what's exchange into; 2. He gets older and might't shield an erection besides as earlier & this motives him embarrassment; 3. Your looks have replaced and he isn't as became on by utilising you (won weight, etc) (not meaning to insult you, besides the undeniable fact that that's a conceivable reason). 4. he's exchange into too attentive to you in the mattress room and 'going for the time of the motions' not excites him; 5. rigidity at artwork, over funds, etc motives him to not be waiting to pay interest on appearing sexually. 6. he's gazing diverse porn and getting his sexual launch that way. you have diverse thoughts if he isn't waiting to fulfill you, which incorporates an affair, getting some toys (there is one observed as a Sybian that;s meant to be impressive), getting him some Viagra, divorce, traveling a intercourse therapist...
2016-10-22 12:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by wach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its great that you love your spouse so much. All women should be that lucky. However, it does make it difficult for us women when men want sex constantly. We dont always have the time for it at the exact time you want it, and sometimes we may not be as aroused as you are right at the moment. Just dont get upset with her if she turns you down on occasion. :)
2006-11-21 04:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to want sex, but to expect it is asking a lot. Lower your expectations and your disappointments will be lessened!
2006-11-21 04:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Brian H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong ive got this bf with the same thing he loves me and i know he dous just tell her that you want some
2006-11-21 04:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋