OK, my girlfriend wants to break up and I respect that except that she says that it is because we have different taste in hobbies and music. I think she really is breaking up because she is Very social and adaptable and I am actually a little shy and I try to fit in with her friends but I am not as involved in the conversation (she says). Do you think that she is breaking up because of this (like the hobbies and music are just a front). I respect that she wants to split up. Should I get counseling to be more outgoing or are girls okay with a guy who is not super outgoing? Also if so, I am interested in meeting a girl who is, even within a few hours of me is okay (Atlanta).
2006-11-21 04:38:45 · 13 answers · asked by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
kick her to the curb
2006-11-21 04:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
I believe your girlfriend is breaking up with you because of your lack of conversation and she wants a guy who is similar to her in music,hobbies, and has the ability to be outgoing. I'm sure not all girls want this. You should just give it another try with a different girl. If that doesn't work then you should get counseling if you feel the need to. Please do not try to get a girl on-line or a few hours from you......Just try to meet a girl in your area like your school or local super market....etc
2006-11-21 12:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's really hard to say why she is breaking up with you..But I can tell you there are many different types of personalities in this world and
to think you might need counseling for not being a over sociable person is not right unless it bothers you..My husband isn't very social unless he has something to say..Many guys don't talk a-lot like girls..Sometimes I think girls talk a bit to much...we tend to over analyze things and need others to justify it.
There are also guys that talk a-lot or the need to be within a social circle and I think it is to make them feel important.
If your OK with your social habits than I wouldn't let anyone try to change you unless it's harmful to you..which from what I read she has the problem not you..
You will find a nice girl someday that will love that you don't always haft to be the center of attention and if your like my husband could care less about having the last word.( you'll save a-lot of needless arguments)
Have fun be yourself and don't change for anyone..
2006-11-21 13:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dont ever think of changing for a woman!ever!you are more than great for the lot of us!maybe she has got bored or looking for sth else...different.i have to tell u that outgoing women (in the majority) adore shy and introverted guys....
be happy and move on .shes not for you, she didnt even had the nuts to tell u she didnt want to be with you 4 the true reasons...(come on, she couldnt break up with u 4 hobbies&music!god!)
hope youll be happy..
if u feel like talking to sbabout this, or about whatever im here...bye..
2006-11-21 12:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go - doesn't matter what her reasons are. You will be better off finding someone who will love you just the way you are! Remember - you don't get into a relationship to change the other person or be changed! Stay true to yourself.....good luck
2006-11-21 12:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks that you are a little bit too boring for her. I know it is hard but try and loosen up a little. But still be yourself. They say that opposites attract, so I do not think that is the reason she wants to break up.
Good Luck
2006-11-21 12:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Aussie Possum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're better off without her and find some new friends who like the same tastes as you do. Nobody needs a friend like that, honestly.
2006-11-21 12:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason she gives for wanting to break up with you doesn't matter - it might just be an excuse to keep from hurting your feelings.
If she wants to go, let her go - and find somebody who WANTS to be with you!
Good luck!
2006-11-21 12:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
here's what you do. stop talking to her. don't be her pawn. if she doesn't wanna talk. don't talk. you'll end up pushing her away. go ahead and meet other girls. don't wanna sound disrespectful but don't put her on a pedestal. meet other girls and you'll realize she wasn't that great anyways. good luck.
2006-11-21 12:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by phantasmo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You need to meet someone with your same interest.
2006-11-21 12:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Tosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares man she aint right for you move on she was diff taste get a girl that will like you for you
2006-11-21 12:41:17 · answer #11 · answered by luciferlevi_89 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋