I having boy friend problems i dont if he wants to talk to me or stop talkin to me.?

Question

He knows my cuzin and she lives near him and when she found out that i was going out with dis dude that i guess she likes she told him all this stuff that i did that isn't true and i tried to explain to him that it isn't but he said that he believes my cuzin cuz he knew her longer than he knew me.Everytime i call his phone he won't pick it up or anything he'll just let it ring until it goes to his answering machine. What should i do cuz i can't get over him cuz i have so many feelings for him.He told me that he felt the same way.I don't to loose him.

Answer 1

In the future, protect yourself by not allowing your cousin to know any personal details about your life. As far as this guy goes, he doesn't deserve the attention you're giving him. He has made it plain that he doesn't believe you--quit trying to convince him. There are other guys out there--always have been--and always will be. Respect yourself and get past this. good luck

Answer 2

Sounds like this guy is just telling you what you want to hear to get you off his back. The cold, hard truth is that he does not plan on answering his phone so you should save some dignity and pride and stop calling. The test will then be that if he really cares then he will notice that you have back off and wonder why. If/When he asks you why then you just tell him "I have already done my best to tell you that those "things" were not true, I cannot make you believe anything you chose not too" once he realizes that you have done your best and are moving on, he might change he mind about who/what he believes

Answer 3

do you really want to be with someone who doesn't believe you that's just asking for problems

Answer 4

if he doesn't believe you, maybe you shouldn't care so much. it is obvious your relationship can't work if he's acting like a jerk