I love that me and him have a baby on the way but I just feel so unsexy to him now sometimes I thinks he's scared to touch me like I caught something but maybe he just dont want to put me into labor.
2006-11-21 03:54:34 · 16 answers · asked by missy87 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First of all, have you told him how he is making you feel?? if not, perhaps he is just afraid of hurting you....you should definitely talk to him about how you are feeling. Since you are pregnant, there is no reason to stop sexual activity unless your doctor said otherwise. and if you do happen to have sex, it's probably best to spoon....its much easier on you since your in your 8 month, and it won't be strenuous either. make sure its gentle though...no rough play whatsoever.
2006-11-21 04:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-11-25 22:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your husband go to your next doctor's visit with you and talk to your doctor about it. If the doctor says everything is fine and it's safe to continue with sex, this should ease any tension or uneasy feelings your husband is having. Otherwise you should just be upfront and honest about how you feel to your husband. Ask him if he does find you unsexy or if it's just he's scared of hurting the baby or putting you in labor. Maybe he thinks you don't want sex so he doesn't want to make you uncomfortable. If it's not safe to have sex you can still be intimate in other ways to make you feel like you are still sexy to him.
2006-11-21 04:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by mommyem 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't touch you because he thinks he'll hurt you or because you think he finds you unattractive. Not too many men would turn down sex with their wives, pregnant or not. Maybe you should tell him how your hormones have you feeling extra aroused lately and that you'd like to be with him. Pregnant sex is great because you have to experiment with more positions AND all of your sensations are heightened. This is our third pregnancy and the sex is better this time around then ever before. If your husband knew how "horny" you were he would not turn away from that. TELL HIM!!!
2006-11-21 04:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by 1973kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband that you understand he does want to hurt you or the baby but it's okay to have show how much he cares while pregnant because it won't hurt the baby and it's good for you because it will make you feel sooo much better knowing your sexy even if you are pregnant because you are about to bring a beautiful baby into the world.
2006-11-21 04:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by hotgirlmex2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be what you thinking. He may feel he could hurt you or the baby. I know most Doctors say we can have sex until it become uncomfortable. But, if your Hubby feel intimidated, may not be a lot you can do. Hopefully after the baby born, he will get back into action.
2006-11-21 03:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about it.....he very well may be scared to hurt you or something like that.....I gained 87 pounds with my first one!...I was HUGE!! But my husband still thought I was *cute*....Maybe talk to him and ask him to touch you.....You tummy ans stuff and assure him that he WILL NOT hurt you....The Dr. said!...lol...It will not put you into labor unless you are ready! I promise....
2006-11-21 04:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys just get scared or nervous of having sex while their partner is pregnant. They think that they might hurt the baby.. I have heard about that alot...
2006-11-21 03:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
talk to him and tell him how you are feeling he may just be scared of hurting you or the baby.
and if all else fails tie him to the bed and have your wicked way with him lol ;-)
good luck and i hope chatting to him about how you feel will sort things out!!
2006-11-21 04:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by magic_pixi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It gets pretty bad towards the end. They know their baby's in there so it weirds them out. Your sex life may go completely downhill after the baby's born. I know my interest plummited. Check out my blog www.lastingromance.blogspot.com
2006-11-21 03:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Map 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋