for love, affection, attention i am going through a break up i want to kill that son of b i t c h he put me in alot of pain and hurt.
2006-11-21 03:49:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know what you are going through right now, but you got to think of it this way: Sometimes its better to be alone for a while no matter what time of the year to enjoy other things around us other than having another person with us. I know what it feels to be alone for the holidays, I am going through it right now, but you have to keep your head up and enjoy the holidays with your family and friends. Would you rather be alone for the right reasons or be with someone for the wrong reasons? Sometimes you can be with a person that doesn't completely love you the same way that you love them and it's worse. Being alone on the holidays sucks, but it will pass and you will soon realize that you don't need someone for love and attention, but you want someone because there is a difference between needing and wanting and you have to be strong and be happy. Show him that you are having a great time this holiday and what he is missing out on. Hope this helps!
2006-11-21 03:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lessons_in_life10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this point, all the love, affection and attention needs to come from YOU. Your going through a hard time right now and rebounding isnt going to help you in the long run. You have to figure out who you really are and learn to love yourself before anyone else can. Take some time off from dating for a while, find yourself and figure out what it is that you honestly want. Holidays are best spent with family and friends. Dont let some jerk ruin that for you. When you do start dating again, stay true to the things you told yourself you wanted and dont change who you are just for a guy.
2006-11-21 11:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life you are not always going to have someone. You need to learn how to live on your own with out having that significant other all the time. The best thing to do is to make really good friends. Friends that can be there for you no matter what. Friends that are like family. You can make good friends by join a club, or going to church functions. That way you already have something in common. Then you can lean on your friends in times like these to help you get over the pain.
2006-11-21 11:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Glee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't (or won't) advocate getting drunk as a skunk on Christmas day.. but I have been alone several times over the years during hollidays.. The best solution I found? a Bottle Of Tequilla.. And Hanging out with Cool Friends.. I don't remember much from a few of Those Christmas' but I do remember good friends.. and I don't remember any hurt.
-HTJ
2006-11-21 11:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by hesterthehester 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i went some holidays alone and in pain.there are some single meetings in the communities. there are christian single dances. go on line and look for singles .com or simply wait like i did. i have been with my man 3 and half years now.i found him working in a grocery store.pray and ask god to help you find a good man who wont hurt you and be there for you.make sure that you spend the holiday with family and friends so you wont be alone. go to church and be in the services around people and enjoy the message from god. who knows there might be a blessing there for you.
2006-11-21 11:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya girl! It will be okay. Don't go jumping into another relationship just to get your mind off your ex. For attention, you can try chatting online.
2006-11-21 11:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you are going to do is replace him with another son of a *****. It's called the dating game.
2006-11-21 11:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I feel for you but you seem to have some baggage that you want to bring along.
I would rather be alone as I always am.
2006-11-21 11:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try family or friends the typical holiday setting
2006-11-21 11:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by 123456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you need help with : not to be alone or kill the son of a *****???
:)
2006-11-21 11:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by layjc01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋