How do you get a stubborn scorpio man to stop and think first.?

Question

I am married to a very good but stubborn man we are both scorpio and once he makes up his mind its like prying a pit bull off. need suggestions to dscretely change is mind

Answer 1

scorpions' wife here. Most of the time I ignore or let the ranting & raving go on, after the smoke clears, he's more logical and hasn't gotten a rise out of me, so that's what it's all about - getting attention. Don't fall into the trap. Treat the tantrum like you would a 5 year old - ignore it until reason/logic sets in. Works for me every time.

Answer 2

I'm a Scorpio. Sorry, But there isn't any way to discretely change his mind. He'll notice immediately if you try to nudge him in another direction and that'll only push him away. You'll never change his mind for him. Only he can change his own mind. If it's something really important that he's being stubborn about then tell him how you feel honestly. If he cares enough about you, eventually it will set in. But if it's something that's not too important, just let it be. Pick your battles.

Also, I wouldn't advise ignoring him. Yes, he needs to calm down. But, ignoring him will only make him angrier or depress him. Just brave the storm until he's able to be logical again. My ex-fiancee' was incapable of coping with emotions and she would ignore me when I was upset and it eventually broke my spirit. I was constantly depressed and I felt neglected. We split up. He has strong feelings and they're important to him, and he wants them to be important to you.

Answer 3

hun that's not going to happen once a scorpio sets his mind to something there is no way to get them off the subject!!! Good Luck

Answer 4

try a compromise instead of you getting your way...you have to give a little to get a little!

Answer 5

You don't i had two and i know they won't change !