What are some reasons why men get bored with their wives?

Answer 1

they are behind the husband and don't let him breath, try to get involve in common things. if you don't like his stuff, that's the answer of your question

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Answer 2

I don't believe men get bored with their wives as much as they get comfortable in their marriage.. We tend to settle in and enjoy the spoils of the relationship.. Often though, wives read into this as we are bored because we are so lay ed back.. Once a man sees that he is loved and is the center of his wife's universe he realizes that he has nothing to worry about and eases up the tension on his self to gain her love.. Men are different than women in this way, God bless women, they always try very hard to keep their men happy and satisfied so they won't wonder away from the marriage..

Answer 3

Most often the real reason is they become disconnected from each other.

Many times your wife is concerned with kids or her career and you're concerned with career and other interests/hobbies.

The goal then is to create intimacy between you so that you can reconnect to the things that made you fall in love in the first place.

A primary way to resolve disconnection, is to begin devoting time and energy on fun recreational activity together. Sharing interests and fun leads to sharing intimate talk which leads to the bedroom. In fact bedroom activity is part of the wide range of recreational fun time you should be devoting to each other.

Dr. Willard F. Harley, a marriage therapy expert suggests at least 15 hours a week of undivided attention spent doing fun activities with your wife. When a marriage is in trouble, which it clearly is whenever there is "boredom" the prescription would be for more than 15 hours.

As you laugh and spend good times with each other you will relax and reconnect. No heavy relationship talks should defile your recreational fun times!

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Answer 4

Men always make comparison of the looks of their wives with pretty lady outside. This is because some of these ladies called wife, after having children, do not care for their looks any longer.
That's makes husbands feel disgusted and bored. More over, some do not even care for their husbands well beings and neglected them. These ladies called wife no longer feel intimate with their husbands and likes to nagged all day long. Thus, makes the husband to flirt and look for partner outside home. As such, wife should be more loving and caring even after having children in order to make their husband remain at home.

Answer 5

This is less a case of men getting bored with their wives than it is a case of many women during the hunt for a mate stage ging the indication of having significantly more desire for sex than they actually have. Marriage is no reason for the desire or frequency of sex to decrease. Sexual desire for your partner will decrease if you find that they don't also show that desire for you. So in most cases it isn't a case of being bored with your wife it is the realization that the desire the wife displayed prior to marriage was deceptive. (if you weighed in at 120 prior to marriage and 220 the following year that doesn't help either) In most cases show some interest and it wil be returned.

Answer 6

Most men find fault in their wives. They give all the reasons they can think of so as to feel blameless when they go cheating. Wives get bored mostly because they dont feel loved anymore. They start to think they're just house helpers doing countless chores day in and day out. lt can really make one bored and weary.

Answer 7

They don't share what's on their minds. I think a lot of men are afraid to upset their wives by giving them negative feedback. And therefore don't say anything. But, it doesn't have to be that way. If you're bored, say something. Tell the other person what you want. But, this rarely happens, therefore there is no "working on the relationship".

Answer 8

Probably for the same reasons that wives get bored with their husbands. With that said, my husband and I have been married for almost 10 years and neither one of us is bored with the other.

Answer 9

I don't intend to sound mean, but from what I have seen, the wives grow up and the men don't. The women settle into a more family oriented role and the men still want to be entertained.

Answer 10

All of us men and woman get bored of each other because basically there is no more mystery after your partner becomes preddictable. If you want him to get un-bored of you do things you normally wouldn't do. Surprise him and I'm not talking sexually I'm talking in general. Change the scene show him that there are still things that you guys can learn from each other. That's the way to keep him interested in you.

Answer 11

The woman gets married thinking she can change the man. The man gets married thinking the woman will not change. She does change after marriage, wether it be growing up or turning into a bossy princess. The guy wants things the way they were when they got married, both going out doing the social thing and being equals. After marriage she uses sex as a bartering tool to get housework done. To sum it all up dating is false advertising on the women's part. As soon as they say I do everything changes.