2006-11-21 02:50:09 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Suck it up and be a man. When you have kids you need to stop acting like a kid, you are financially responsible for that child.
2006-11-21 02:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all if she wants this child you need to be step up to the plate. Decide if you can and will be a father that will help the child in a positive manner or if you would be a father that would cause more harm than good. You don't have to be wealthy to be a good parent. You need to see to it that she gets the medical attention a pregnancy requires then if you can't be a good father and she wants the child sign over your rights and let them find someone who will love and support them. You knew what the consciences were when you had unprotected sex and at the time it wasn't a "big deal" or it would have been protected.
2006-11-21 03:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by mckeylane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. I don't need to lecture you about un-protected sex, you found out the hard way. If you're not going to stay with her, tell her now, but be a man and be there for her throughout the pregnancy and for the child when he/she is born........YOU IDIOT.....Just read the answer from Texas_ang, and looked at your previous questions. You're truly amazing, managing to not only get your girl pregnant, but also YOURSELF !!! You also wanted to have sex with another guy. Didn't bother reading anymore. Just grow up and stop being so pathetic
2006-11-21 02:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tighten your belt, keep or get a job or start your own business and give all the moral and physical support possible to the woman. Because you had to ask this question I feel safe believing that you're still quite young so... the two of you just drastically limited your fun, loving youthful experiences. Raising a child is a major responsibility for the both of you - yet it is the most rewarding of life's endeavors.
Good luck.
2006-11-21 03:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by iuud2noitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, "...what should I do?" You decided at that time that having unprotected sex was more important than thinking about your future so the only thing to do is stand by her. Don't pressure her to get an abortion, don't pressure her to keep it...Because in the end no matter what happens to you 2, she will be more than likely the parent who has to take care of the "child" weather it's the feeling of guilt because she aborted or the feelings of guilt because she put the baby up for adoption or knowing she might have to raise this child by herself, if you decide to leave. What ever it is that you 2 decide, stand by her and don't run!
2006-11-21 03:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Happy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do - STOP being a posing jerk!!
Thirty minutes ago you were 4 months pregnant asking about birth control.
Now you girlfriend is pregnant and you wnat to know what to do.
Go immediately and play "chicken" with a train, and don't worry, the train will almost always turn away at the last second!
JERK
2006-11-21 03:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by dpbmab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be man enough! Do you have enough conscience? What about if your mother aborted you? You are now gone with the wind! When will you be responsible for your action?
Remember , girls are not sex objects! They are people with emotions too! Dont think of them as toys! What about if you have a child who happens to be a girl then the boy got her pregnant? What would you feel if you are the father?
2006-11-21 03:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys need to talk about your options and deside whats best for the both of you. If you deside to keep the baby, you can only do the best you can to be a good father. I know from exsperience it's hard growing up without a father. It's not about money, it takes a real man to raise his child. A child is not gonna remember how much money you gave, but he will remember the time you spent playing with him and making him laugh.
2006-11-21 02:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking stupid questions, wasnt long ago you claimed YOU were 4 months pregnant and wanted to know if you could still take birth control pills. Man you need a life
2006-11-21 02:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility. If you were grown up enough to have sex then you are grown up to deal with the consequence. Then you will learn from this experience and use protection.
2006-11-21 02:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was going to tell you to grow up but i just read your other Q's and realised you're only 13. Maybe now would be a good time to stop wasting peoples time with this crap. There are people out there who are actually in need of advice.
2006-11-21 03:39:28 · answer #11 · answered by Dancing Queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋