Whilst enjoying a lovemaking session last night i was taking longer than usual to ejaculate the wife asked me if everything was ok and i said yes i'm alright i just cant think of anybody. When she asked me what i meant by that i told her exactly what i meant, Well................ she hit the roof when i explained to her,she wont speak to me now should i have lied and said i had a headache or was tired or something??????
2006-11-21 02:49:07 · 31 answers · asked by qcumber man 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't start talking to her until tommorrow...........it'll keep her out the way for the match tonyt :)
2006-11-21 02:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
On the other hand, I can understand what made her upset. You use imagery (of other women) to help you achieve orgasm while making love with your wife. And you told her about it. Sigh.
It's going to take a while for her to get over this one. And you're going to need to be patient with her. You should romance her, "woo" her. This isn't something you should expect her to sweep away. You're married to her, so you should know what she likes. First, did you apologize? Then you need to concentrate on HER - if you like her hair - tell her while you're touching it, etc. But don't slather it on thick like syrup on a pancake. Be subtle, be romantic, and eventually your foot will leave your mouth.
Good luck.
2006-11-21 10:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sex takes the headache away! Sometimes honesty is just not appropriate for the situation. You should have just left that bit of information out of the bedroom. Perhaps you can come up with a better answer next time, if there is a next time. LOL God bless****
2006-11-21 10:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd really like to think you're on a wind up but somehow I doubt it.
Ooops.
You should probably have been a little less brutally honest than you were, although I suspect that you won't have to worry about thinking of someone else for a while.....
...I recon you'll be busy pretending it's not your hand for the foreseeable future!
2006-11-21 11:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hehe, funny story. I think many guys have been in this situation before where they can't, erm, come, luckily for most of us we are lying bastards and didn't say the REAL reason. But honestly ladies, MANY guys are thinking of someone else to 'help them over the edge'. Meanwhile the woman's going through the grocery list in her mind. That's life. Deal with it.
2006-11-21 11:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by S1ickb1g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were obviously looking for this response. Next time she's on top ask her which studly guy she works with, sees in traffic or the store, etc. she pretending she's riding so as to enjoy the experience.
2006-11-21 10:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he means that he was trying to imagine he was with another guy ;) , yeah that must be it....
Lets just hope she was giving you the once weekly work out and is getting it off everyone else you know in the mean time!!
2006-11-21 10:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by dsclimb1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your wife always expect about looking at other women and thinking of them when in bed
2006-11-21 10:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by ronnell1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! That's as bad as calling her the "C" word! They don't like that. I'm sorry, better get out the lube it's gonna be a while. Good luck.
2006-11-21 10:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you just think about her supersexy sister that you said you slept with 2 months ago?
2006-11-21 10:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE you FU*KED up royally. Next time just say you are having a SENIOR moment. Works every time.
2006-11-21 10:57:00 · answer #11 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋