there is this problem that i am really concerned as to how i look... i always feel that someone or the other is making fun of me...how do i come over it?
2006-11-21 02:46:39 · 5 answers · asked by rahul 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think most people are concerned about how they look. It's a cruel world with simple minded people in it, and people are judged on their looks for everything-job, friends, love and attraction.
As far as people making fun of you. Well, if you are a child or teenager--this is temporary, kids grow out of acting this way and learn empathy as they get older. If you are an adult. People are probably not making fun of you. I don't know many people who do this kind of thing unless they are extraordinarily backward or they are kidding and the person they are making fun of is in on the joke.
How do you overcome it? I know this sounds extremely simplistic, but love yourself. Of course, I don't know what you look like, but you are a person and your soul, spirit, being or whatever you want to call it, is who you really are, not your outershell. You didn't choose that it, was thrust upon you. My guess is you probably look fine and you are just sensitive or have had a bad experience. You might be suffering from depression, if so tell your doctor and there are good meds out there that can help. It's not a bad thing to take meds --sometimes things are wrong with our minds, just like things go bad in our bodies and it's cruel to yourself not to fix something that can be fixed. Anyway, good luck, you're a person-an inspiration of God-so you matter and deserve respect and happiness.
2006-11-21 21:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
evryone everywhere is concerned abt how they look...you don't have to worry. if you are going to worry people are probably going to notice how you are feeling and then they will look at you..so just be confident and walk with your head up high..you will do fine..you are probably feeling this coz you were deaf but you should be confident now that you have undergone a surgery and you are able to hear now.....guess what?? most people are probably thinking of you ina more positive way than you think
2006-11-21 04:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by knock-a-brain-apart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have low self -esteem. just relax...no one is perfect. Even if you look silly one day, if someone laughs, that is their problem not yours. Focus on more important things.
Good luck.
2006-11-21 02:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that 99.999999% of people simply don't care, and those that do should you worry about themselves anyways instead of other people. Good luck!
2006-11-21 03:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by neuralzen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident..........just think how much u think abt people looks...never....u always see how u look like...........same as frind..........all people are conerned with themselves.....no one care how other look like etc............so be positive....be brave........no one is beautifull than u..........u are the best.......keep my words frind,..uare the best:)
2006-11-21 02:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by karabiner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋