other people take advantage of my weak character, white kids, international kids try and takwe advantage of me they think iam a clown sometimes when i don't want to paly they insist on annoying me what should i do?
i know violence is not the way so what can i do?
2006-11-21 02:44:07 · 9 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why are you even calling yourself a weak character..
Don't put your own self there..
Regaurdless race or whatever.. There are going to be someone out there that don't like you or your ways..
Be happy with yourelf and F the rest..
2006-11-21 02:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your race/color has absolutely nothing to do with this. You can not control what other people do or say or think. You only have control over what you do/say/think. NOW, think about this. I bet a lot of kids made fun of and, probably, picked on Bill Gates cause he didn't play their games. Guess who's laughing now?
You only have two choices. You can conform to what others want you to do (and be miserable) or do what you want to do/be what you want to be and suffer the ridicule of the other kids (and be miserable)
In the first case you make yourself miserable because you are doing/being something you don't want to do/be. In the second case you're at least getting to do/be what makes you happy, but getting picked on. My experience is that if you don't really want to do something you will not be very good at it and the others will still pick on you for not being good at it-so do what you want and just suffer the stupid stuff from the others.
2006-11-21 10:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by dulcrayon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can be so cruel and mean and hurtful. You have to remember who you are as a person. You have inner beauty as well as outter. God created you in HIS Image and if you think that you are a weak character then what are you saying about God that HE is weak as well? Love yourself and others will love you for who you are and just be yourself. And if you don't have a person where you are to call a friend just know that you will always have a Friend in Jesus for HE is your only True Friend. Don't every use the race factor for not having friends because sometimes it is a factor but for the most it isn't. It's all about you and how you present yourself as a person.
2006-11-21 11:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sonya C- North America is a Continent, The united states of America is a country- you cannot say everyone on this Continent is American, since that would be incorrect- the Canadians also live in North America, however they are not Americans they are Canadians, that is their Country.
2006-11-21 10:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask this question to us...you should be smart and wise to know what ur suppose to be and how to approach things...your a great guy but u think u dont know how things should go..but u should evaluate what your responses and reactions suppose to be...
ofcourse u'd need respect but u should find a way to achieve that and that is not my violence or un-ethical manners...(i hope understood and try to achieve you objective in long run)
Good Luck! and make sure u dont loose that kind and sensible heart of yours....
2006-11-21 10:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm concerned that you say you have a weak character. That should be the first issue you deal with and the rest will take care of itself.
2006-11-21 10:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by justcurious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever you decide to do be strong. have plenty of love for youself and show that you have pride. stand for what you believe and be stern when confronted. it is hard to explain but try not to allow people to run over you. if they are doing something speak up then leave. good luck and i know you will find the solutions that you need.
2006-11-21 11:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by porsha226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of color, but rather something kids do in general. You dont need to me arrogant. Simply stand your ground as a person.
2006-11-21 10:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same story with hispanics man!!!!
we don`t look afican, we dont`look asian, we don´t look european, but everybody denies us the right to call ourselves "americans", even thoug we were born in this continent
because America is a continent not a country. . did you know that ..... einstein????
2006-11-21 10:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by SONYA C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋