I feel like im crazy! He has done it before and I have a strong feeling that he is again or is about to. Do you think im just being crazy as he says or should i trust my feelings? How can I find out who he's talking to on his business cell? Help
2006-11-21 02:25:58 · 20 answers · asked by lnay05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do a semen test... http://www.semen-test.net/
2006-11-22 03:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Rachalz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you may try it is almost impossible to develop and maintain trust again for a partner who has cheated. There will probably always be some lingering doubt even after years of being faithful. If he (or she) has cheated more than one time then you know it will and probably has been happening already. In that case your decision must be, is that something you are prepared to accept. I personally haven't seen a cheater who didn't cheat again,,,,and again. Even if you find a way to check his calls and find nothing you will only feel relief for a short time then you will be back to where you are now. A broken trust can't be fully repaired.
2006-11-21 02:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear that...
Honestly I would look in his phone, or possibly check his agenda? Possibly credit card statements, if you are worried he is wit someone. I mean you would know if something didn't look right on there. For me if I have a gut instinct I have to go with it. I'm sorry to hear that he has previously done this. To me once a cheater, always a cheater... sorry to be so blunt. If you have money, and don't mind it though, you could hire a private detective to look into what he is doing. This could end in him finding out. But it seems as though you already don't trust him, and I am wondering if this is a feeling you can keep, and still want to be with him. I am assuming no.
Good luck, and I am sorry you are put in this situation.
2006-11-21 02:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by mke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My hubby go's outside to use the phone, then when Im gone he talks inside. I took a small tape recorder and put it in a hiding place, pushed record when I left. An hour later I went in the bathroom and listened to what he did while I was gone. You can also check his underwear for semen stains. Also if he has been out at night try to have sex with him, if he says no try to go down on him and see if you smell semen or another girl meaning a nasty smell thats not yours! Also push *69 after he gets off the phone, or push redail.
2006-11-21 02:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you , I have been exactly where you are at. I thought I was going crazy because I had a gut feeling that my ex-husband was cheating on me when we were married. I felt like I was going crazy too... And you know what I was right.. Go with your gut instincts.. You are probably right espically if you have been there before. Check his phone when he is asleep or in the shower, but be sure you are ready to confront it head on before it is too late to turn back...
2006-11-21 02:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by luckygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your feelings, Is he making an effort about the way he looks ? Is he buying new clothes? does he leave his cell phone around or doesn't he leave it out of his sight. Has he started going out at night?. Come on you can tell !! if he is doing weird things then he is cheating.
2006-11-21 02:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a good chance he's doing it again - why? Because you're enabling him. You should've divorced him the first time. Cheating is not right - it means he doesn't love and respect you - it means he has broken his commitment to your marriage, which was supposed to be sacred. Don't let the same mistakes keep happening - get out of there and move on.
2006-11-21 02:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel like you're crazy because he's telling you that you are!
That is a sure sign he's up to something. Dont believe a word he says. Keep your ears and eyes wide open. The truth will be evident, and you probably wont like it.
2006-11-21 02:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW WHAT? IF YOU KNOW OR FEEL YOUR MAN IS GOING TO CHEAT ON YOU AGAIN.. IF I WERE YOU NO HONEY CANT LIVE LIKE THAT.. I WOULDNT EVEN TRY TO FOUND OUT THERE IS NO TRUST,WHY STAY AND LIVE THE HELL OF WONDERING ALL THE TIME..
THIS MAN CHEATED ON YOU AND IF GIVEN THE TIME BELIEVE HE WILL DO IT AGAIN... AND YOU ARE GOING TO BE LEFT WITH THE ONLY CHOICE LEFT TAKE IT AS IT IS OR LEAVE... I WOULD TAKE MY LIFE, MY CHANCE OF HAPPINESS WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND LEAVE DONT STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS PUTTING YOU TROUGH HELL. GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-21 02:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way to bet him in his own game is. You have to basicly have so much sex with him as possible every min. that when you're done with him if he is cheating trust me the other woman will be cheated and he won't be cheating much longer : )
2006-11-21 02:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sir J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Acting like an ADULT would help a lot. If you don't TRUST him just leave. Why deal with all the DRAMA.
2006-11-21 02:34:18 · answer #11 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋