go to the park or a city dinner.
:> peace
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2006-11-24 17:49:02
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answered by Anonymous
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You do have a family: your child! Maybe a few days before the holidays, you can have a dinner party inviting your friends over. Just tell them that since you don't have plans for Christmas or Thanksgiving and you know that they'll be pretty busy, that you would really like to celebrate with the people you love. Not only will they show up, but they'll probably want you to be there with them when they celebrate too! There's often things on holidays for the kids that you can take your son or daughter to and it will get you out of the house. I'm a single flight attendant that usually gets stuck in hotels over the holidays, so I know the feeling when there's no one around. Start your own tradition that you can enjoy no matter how many people are there.
2006-11-21 02:13:05
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answered by Gal on a Jet Plane 3
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Do you know any other moms in your situation? Maybe you could plan to celebrate the holidays together. Family isn't the ONLY thing that Thanksgiving is about....friends can be your family, too!
Is your child old enough to serve meals to the homeless? Maybe you two could start a tradition of volunteering to serve meals at one of your community's soup kitchens. Most organizations have a big Thanksgiving meal for anyone who doesn't have someplace to go, who's alone for the holiday, or who can't afford their own. You'll feel all warm and happy inside that you helped make their holiday more cheerful, and you'll be teaching your child a valuable lesson about generosity and giving back to the community.
Whatever you choose to do, I'll be thinking about you on Thursday. I understand what you're feeling, and I know it's tough. Hang in there :)
2006-11-21 02:17:00
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answered by psych_donkey 2
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This is very sad, and there are a great deal of people who suffer this type of loneliness every year. My suggestion would be to make it special for you and your child. That is what I have done for over 25 years. Dinners would always include myself and four sons and some friends that were alone. It was always a special blessing. And everyday is a blessing, I am fortunate to have my four sons. And now two of them are grown and we continue on with this same attitude, only our family has grown now with the blessings of a grandchild. If this is not an option for you then I would consider going and volunteering your time at a Church or local agency that is serving dinner to those who are alone without family or even funding. This is a very rewarding experience, and you will not be alone. I wish you the best. God bless you****
2006-11-21 02:10:17
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answered by ? 7
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i was told something here recently and that is you have family and then you have people you make your family because of what ever reason you have but i thought that was interesting because i have 5 brothers and sisters and i feel closer to my friends then my family so i guess the person was right ......you have to make you a family from the people you are close to-to make a family since yours is gone and if know one will invite you then invite them and their family to your house to have a dinner or go to the hospital and find some people their you can help them through the holiday that always helps people get better to know someone cares.....just a thought i hope that helps.....
2006-11-21 02:16:52
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answered by missy 2
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Lots of people are alone for the holidays.
You can either drop hints about being alone to your friends and hope one of them invites you to their Thanksgiving dinner, or look around for people like yourself at PTA, Church, Softball, school or the neighborhood and get a dinner together.
A man in our church did that; he said you have two choices for Thanksgiving, people you like and people you are related to. He invited about 12 of each to his house one year. He told all of us kids we had to call the old people "Uncle" and "Aunt", and the old people had to tell us kids "My how you've grown!" at least once. Everyone brought side dishes and a bottle of wine. He baked a turkey. It went on from noon to six, and we had a ball.
Either way, you should start planning a month before hand.
You could also volunteer to help serve at the homeless shelter, if your child is big enough to carry dinner rolls or otherwise help.
2006-11-21 02:21:53
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answered by Anne Jovie 6
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My mom was a single mom and I was and only child and our Thanksgivings together were really memorable! We'd make arts and crafts the weekend before and she'd let me help with the meals! She always told me to appreciate what we had because 'well, that's all you have'. As I got older I really started to realize what she meant. Happy thanksgiving. You're not alone.
2006-11-21 02:40:56
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answered by jackie_jackie_bo_backie 2
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I feel the same way . I volunteer to feed the homeless people here where i live and it makes me feel so wanted and needed . My kids are grown and gone and i am divorced so i hate holidays also . Maybe i will skip them this year .
2006-11-21 02:11:55
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answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7
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Some times spending times with family and friends is as bad.
2006-11-21 02:12:22
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answered by Wael 3
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2016-10-22 11:47:18
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answered by ? 4
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me too girl! I felt guilty for feeling that way since I have 2 kids. I felt like I shouldn't feel lonely. Thank you for asking this. Now I feel better b/c I know I'm not alone. :-)
2006-11-21 02:06:41
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answered by bhbghgjbvmnbncvb 4
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