Im 14 weeks pregnant, and up till now my partner and I were getting on great. However, yesterday he said he needs a bit of space as we have been together 24 hours a day for the last few days (Ive been off work). I have taken it really personally and feel he doesn't want me or our baby around him. I have nowhere to go as I dont't live near my friends and have no family, and am feeling really isolated and insecure. I know he does love me and gets like this sometimes. do u think Im over reacting because of the pregnancy hormones or am i justified in feeling upset? I don't know what to do?
2006-11-21 01:46:44 · 9 answers · asked by Serry's mum 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You are overreacting a bit and he is a little insensitive. Sometimes people need a little space, that doesn't mean anything against you. Me sometimes need time to think alone like I am sure women do. Don't take it personal.
2006-11-21 02:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, grats on the pregnancy. Second, if i was around my man that much, i'd have to get out. I'm NOT pregnant, I just know him. Go out, enjoy yourself. IF you can't drive, as I can't, call a friend or family member up. THey should know you're pregnant by now, so call up, say your Mom, and ask her to go out shopping with you. Or have a girlfriend pick you up and do some girl things together, and then the space will be good. Its your hormones speaking Darling, but some space is a good thing. :) Good luck to ya and hope it works.
2006-11-21 01:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy 4 Cats! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for nothing but I would think most people would need some space after being with only one person for days and days. I'm not understanding what you mean by not wanting to be around you or your baby though. There is no baby born right?
2006-11-21 01:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are over reacting...and it is probably because of hormones. Anyone spending that much time together is going to need space sooner or later. How about you just go out shopping for a while, get your nails done...go look at baby stuff. Or what about him, doenst he have friends he could go hang out with ? Relax..he loves you, he just needs a break.
2006-11-21 01:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's those hormones. That is a lot of time together. Try finding a pregnancy/parenting group where you live, or any type of group or activity. (great ones are pregnancy yoga, fitness programs, or gyms)
These are great places to meet other people with the same interests as you, as well as other parents.
2006-11-21 02:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by identity crisis! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he needs space. Did he say he was leaving? If he didn't say that, then you can rest a bit easier. Don't take it too seriously. I'm not saying that he didn't hurt your feelings by saying what he did. It may not mean that he wants to leave you either. And congrads on the pregnancy.
2006-11-21 01:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we need space from our loved ones as we can drive each other insane! Plus he is adjusting to the pregnancy so i wouldn't look in to it to hard, just relax and spend sometime by your self, may bey pamper your self or go to the hairdressers and just give him time to adjust! Good luck
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2016-12-29 07:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by belis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't. men tend to get this sickness. it has nothing to do with your baby. in my 2 years i have been, i don't recall we fought so much as when i was pregnant. my hormones.
so relax. everything will be fine.
2006-11-21 02:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋