Just afraid to tell him. How do I approach this?
2006-11-21 01:26:39 · 6 answers · asked by danielle a 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just sit him down and tell him that u like women and that if u don't want me to be with a women I wont cause I love u and respect u. But if he don't mind which alot of men wont then tell him that before u are with a women u will let him know so that way he will trust u and it wont be cheating. I'm bi curious and my husband knows and he doesn't care as long as I tell him when I will be with a women so he wont be in the dark. And he knows that I kissed women and it doesn't bother him. But n e ways u have to be honest with him because every relationship should have 100% trust and u don't want your relationship to be based on lies....
2006-11-21 11:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sanitha L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he trusts you, it shouldn't be a problem. If he is the jealous type, you could have problems spending time with your friends. Most men though fantasize about being with 2 women, if you are interested in doing that, bring it up over a couple drinks, his eyes will probably light up like a kid on Christmas.
2006-11-21 10:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by meg-treehugger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I just discussed this topic with my fiance last night. I told him I might be curious and this is how I did it. I first told him about the dreams I had about having sex with a female. He kinda looked at me funny and was like "oh yeah?" So I said yeah, they are reoccurring dreams. So he asked me "Would you ever act on it"? I said I dunno because I did make out with my friend a couple times who is bisexual and he's aware of this. So then we kept talking and I said maybe I have to act on this dream to find out what I really am. He's like "go ahead, and if you want me to watch, I don't mind, its actually turning me on with you talking like this". So anyway I pretty much got my fiances permission to explore my fantasies. Maybe if you approach your man the same way I did it could go smoothly. Goodluck sweetie!
2006-11-21 09:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult subject to discuss with your spouse. I recently told my wife that I have a strong lust for other men. I have been keeping this inside of me for 20 + years and could no longer restrain myself. I now have to make a choice in my life.
2006-11-21 09:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by beachguy_41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite your girlfriend and boyfriend over some night to "watch a movie" and go from there.but i personally wouldnt be in a committed relationship with a bi girl.it might be fun for a summer fling tho
2006-11-21 09:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Rockmore 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
None, as long as you are not cheating on each other it is ok. I don't see the difference...among other things love is about being honest and true and being able to trust each other.
2006-11-21 11:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋