2006-11-21 01:22:06 · 9 answers · asked by choice2make4u 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He is definitely not married u guys. I wouldn't get involve in a situation that complicated. He was my university professor in a single course almost 2 years ago, but i got in touch for a recommodation letter and i remembered how very sweet he is.. I'm 23, he is 39. Bad i know..
2006-11-21 01:36:17 · update #1
I think he is flirting but he wouldn't jeoperdize his career ( i think ) ..
i think is foulish to say something.. i will just be embarressed..//what do u think!??
2006-11-21 01:39:08 · update #2
well since I know exactly what you speak of I'd say check it out. But please don't go to him and say something like would you misunderstand it if I'd tell you that I'd love you (that's exactly what a friend of mine did, even the exact words...)
well depending on what you like always making jokes or singing or anything stupid enough to classify you as crazy - do it in front of him (it would be smart if it seems like you don't know that he's around) and then wait and see how he reacts....
1. If he doesn't do anything: forget it and move on
2. If he smiles: say you're sorry and try to get into a conversation (if it works read point 3.)
3. If he comes to you and starts making some comments see what underlying message is transmitted...
3.a he says something like nice to see you that way, or never pictured you like this(sarcastic of funny comments are good) and by some things you can conclude that he's been thinking about you
3.b he says something like behave like a normal person - this can either mean that he thinks you're too young or that he wants you not to make a fool out of yourself...
but I think you can sense if he likes you or if he LIKES you....
just do something out of the ordinary and see what happens, but don't tell him in words unless you go out drinking with him (then you can always blame the alcohol...)
keep smiling no matter how it turns out, but know this: LOVE NEEDS TIME TO GROW
2006-11-26 05:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by doctor who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was madly, passionately in love (or so I thought) with my History teacher when I was in School. He being a good man took that passion and put it to use. He worked with that energy and I worked hard for his favor. Yes my grades were up and I did some growing up.
I would hope this Teacher is the same. And doesn't cross that line (of Teacher -student relationship). That would be worst.
Years later I met this Teacher again (Small World). And I am glad to be his FRIEND. And glad to hear his summery of my school years. He remembered me well.
I hope it works out the same for you. Don't cross that line. Don't entice him too.
Move on and get busy with other things and people. Otherwise it might not be a happy ending for either or both of you. You don't want that to happen. Not if you truely care.
Add On--sorry missed the Ex part. Again don't push and get busy. Meet others (so many people you will find -the heart is big enough for many.) There is a difference between love and other things-hard to tell when your feelings are ruling. What will be will be.
2006-11-22 01:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by *** The Earth has Hadenough*** 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have fallen in love with many of my personal heroes and mentors, realize that you are not the first nor the last and ALSO not the only one who is in love with this professor and move on with your life. This stuff happens all the time to people like them, perhaps you have just fallen in love with learning, when I first went to college I could not believe how much I did not know, I ate it up these classroom trips to the amazon , back to prehistoric times, journies into the minds of great people, geniuses, your journey is just beginning and you are possibly in love with the persn who opend your head , and maybe the professor is HOT and that makes it even more confusing... but perhaps a friendship will come out of this adoration ...in time.
2006-11-21 09:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by micheleseptember 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends, is he married? If he is, you might not want to get involved. Has he ever flirted with you, or given you any indication that he is interested? If so then by all means, advance, take a chance. If not, then there's still hope. Trying never hurt anybody.
2006-11-21 09:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's fine. i'm in love with a stripper...
as long as you start out as friends and you don't plan to take any more of his/her courses...unless its the inter variety.
and don't cross the line of cheating
2006-11-21 09:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by thomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you speak of is not love. Love is two way. You have an attraction that has the potential of love.
2006-11-21 09:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Debbk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he knows nothing about your feelings for him, you are not in love with him - you're just infatuated.
Either tell him how you feel and see if it works, or move on.
2006-11-21 09:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a college prof, 39 and no nothing. could it be me?
2006-11-21 22:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Pink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont combine business with pleasure
2006-11-21 09:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by justme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋