I have never ever been a jealous person, but I have met someone who I am falling in love with, and I find myself getting jealous of others around him sometimes. He doesn't give me any reason to be that way, and I haven't told him about it. Is this a normal feeling to have?
2006-11-21 00:58:05 · 12 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Your feelings are then related to how secure you feel about how they feel about you. You want the relationship to continue, yet are unsure if the feelings are mutual.
Of course, it's normal, but nothing that can't be overcome with good communication.
2006-11-21 01:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by thellord_thighgod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no jealousy is NOT a normal human emotion in any situation ,it is an abnormal reaction or a pathology and it has alot to do envy which may be tied up with your own good or bad feelings about yourself. you can learn to control your emotions, you can learn to feel grateful for what you have and who YOU are. there a twist on an old saying saying... I was jealous of a man who had new shoes until I met a man who had no legs. You do not say how old u are but things sometimes get easier with experience so chill and see what happens. You will have many loves in your life although sometimes it feels like maybe no one will ever love you at all or again if you lose the love you currently have, love comes when you least expect it and when you are not really looking for it.
this is from Corinthians (no I am NOT religious I just like this, there is more if you look it up)
Love is long suffering,
love is kind,
it is not jealous,
love does not boast,
it is not inflated.
It is not discourteous,
it is not selfish,
it is not irritable,
it does not enumerate the evil.
It does not rejoice over the wrong, but rejoices in the truth
(DO NOT TAKE THE "LONG SUFFERING" THING TOO LITERALLY love should not really cause you physical or spiritual hurt or abuse)
2006-11-21 01:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by micheleseptember 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a classic feeling like all different. hate, love, happiness its something that we as human beings cope with and its became makes us popular. the style you cope with is purely via admitting to your self which you're certainly jealous and harm down why you're and understand those reasons so which you will flow on and locate your the genuine love of your existence. it may desire to be an previous asserting yet its a good one "Time heals all wounds."
2016-10-17 08:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO, jealousy leads to over protectiveness, and mistrust, you need to get rid of it. In most abusive relationships a partner is jealous and wants his/her partner for himself, this partner is not only getting cut off from the world but is soon going to be fed up with you....so you're choice...
2006-11-21 01:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by ~Pitbull 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. It is a reflection of feeling protective. At the same time you have to make sure that you don't let those feelings get the best of you. They can also ruin a relationship.
2006-11-21 01:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to get jealous. That's just your insecurities getting the best of you. If you really trust your guy, you shouldn't worry about him meeting other people.
2006-11-21 01:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by Holly W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!~!! if you're in love with him, you're obviously gonna get jealous!
It means you really care for him
2006-11-21 01:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by banana music mango 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal, yes. Appropriate, no. Unfortunately there is no quick "trust" fix.
2006-11-21 01:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is destructive and exists due to your own self esteem issues...learn to be positive and strong and you will attract the same to you...
2006-11-21 05:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by The walker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes...you should tell him your feelings...and he should respect them...if he doesn't respect them then he isn't the one for you...but if he does respect it maybe he loves you to....chances are he gets jealous too.
2006-11-21 01:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by mona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋