i dont know what can and can't be done...does any one have some ideas? anything would be greatful.... we know it will be in gloucester ma near the ocean...buts tats as far as we have gottin...
2006-11-21 00:45:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i meant thats* not tats
2006-11-21 00:46:04 · update #1
Congratulations!!! (((hugs))) I just *love* weddings! I am a minister and did perform a ceremony for a wonderful gay (male) couple...I found the base of a beautiful gay ceremony through an online search, then I tweaked it to reflect what they wanted to say to each other. I also use a book called "Weddings from the Heart" by Daphne Rose Kingma. It gives you all the components of the ceremony so you can pick and choose what feels right for both of you. You are pledging your love and life to the other, and that's what you're going for in the ceremony. Best of luck to you both!!
2006-11-21 01:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats to you!!!!! I just recently had a Civil Union (May 6th 2006) here in Connecticut to my girlfriend of 5 years. We had a very nice ceremony at a hall with a Justice of the Peace. We tried to make it as "traditional" as we could....given the circumstances *chuckle*. Plan it just like you would any other type of event. The only thing i made sure of was that i only invited people that i knew cared about me and i knew WANTED to be there (it will make for a much more pleasant experience). If you have any other questions or just wanna chat feel free to email me at zutti33@yahoo.com I could even send you some pictures of ours if you'd like. In any case....good luck with everything!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-21 01:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been to any gay marriages either, but I don't see why there would be any restrictions on what "can" be done. It's your wedding, plan it the way you would like it! It can be traditional, or it can be a simple ceremony where you each write vows to each other. Exchanging rings would be nice, that's a symbolism of love and commitment no matter what kind of ceremony you have. Congratulations and best wishes to you both!
2006-11-21 00:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by rosecitylady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ever you do. do not make any gay jokes, besides that just being yourself should be just fine. they will be open if you let them know that you have never done the whole gay thing before i mean they want beat you down or anything like that.
just remember think before you speak
and whispering is rude
also congrats on the engagement
am i inverted... lol
2006-11-21 00:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be yourself. Gay people are people too. Dont forget that. Everyone has feelings. If you are a polite person with an open mind, you should have nothing to worry about.
2006-11-21 00:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Class 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No incestuous relationships , no inter species relationships, no pedophiles .... only gay relationships . sure , gay marriage could be legalized . this question is getting real old . i could like an evidence as to why all and sundry is so boastful in believing that this could in any respect harm them or society . we ought to depart the gays on my own already and get on with our lives .
2016-11-25 22:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats. Planning is the same regardless of who the two people are. Any wedding magazines / websites will give you guidance. Just do what you want. It's your day, so plan it for yourselves.
2006-11-21 00:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by tipper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you cant actually get married, you can have a ceremony where you can say your vowels and celebrate your love for one another. decide who will ware the dress and who the tux and go on as if it were like any other marriage. good luck to you both.
2006-11-21 00:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
best of luck and may you be bless for your love.
2006-11-21 01:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww good luck i hope ur happy!
2006-11-21 00:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by The bored and hyper one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋