If a man is interested in having a long term relationship with a woman, but she does not want to be in a committed relationship with him, is it possible that it would make him angry, hurt or offend him if she tells him she just wants to have sex with him with no committment or relationship?
2006-11-21 00:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by shar 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I've been on both sides of this equation. I have been the man that only wanted friendship and sex; I have also been the man that wanted a long term relationship when he only wanted friendship and sex. Sure, it can hurt. Anger is not really an appropriately directed response, though. If they direct anger at you they are masking their true feelings - they are really angry at themselves.
2006-11-24 14:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would be hurtful if anyone is looking for a long term relationship and the other person refuses. Frankly, if they aren't on the same wavelength, it's time to move on.
2006-11-21 01:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may hurt but it's the best way to be honest. If you don't tell this truth tp that guy, this may hurt him much more later. And olso may make angry. Because anger, hatred, being hurt and such more feelings are bacause of non-responded expectations. So his reaction will be depending on how strong his expectation is.
2006-11-21 00:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by takeiteasy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd do back flips for JOY if I was still a pup!!!!! I am in a relationship that I'm deeply committed to right now and intend to hold up my end of the deal till I die but still, that's the holy grail for the young fellows that I know! Too cool!
2006-11-21 00:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I saw green peas coming out of her armpit once. So not sure if she is a safe choice to debate over. That woman is going bananas there cause she knows she saw that orange chirp up that cabbage before the pear.
2006-11-21 00:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
rejection is always difficult...i might feel a bit hurt, but not offended or angry with someone else's honesty. i would just move on.
2006-11-21 00:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Spyder 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hopefully he should just move on and forget about her altogether. There are too many nice ones to waste on someone who wasnt interested
2006-11-21 00:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats an ideal situation for me. Its called having a f**k buddy
2006-11-21 00:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by silsa1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not be hurt I would be like sex hell yeah
2006-11-21 01:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by sidemunch88 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a trick question......when some likes someone it really doesn't matter
2006-11-21 00:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by babo1dm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋