i mean. one of my friends says that "all" men are bad!!!! im tryin to prove her wrong. cause i know that there are women who are just as bad. . . . could you guys please help me here... and she doesnt believe in love either!!!!!!!!!1 how can i prove it to her that it exists??
2006-11-20 23:07:55 · 20 answers · asked by coco 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Your friend sounds very bitter to me. There are a lot of good men around, just as there are good women. It sounds like to me that she is just trying to make excuses as to why her love life sucks.
2006-11-20 23:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is wrong.. Woman are by far worse than men... We can be very evil when pissed off.. Just look at the prisons and ask a guard working in one.. They will say " woman are worse"
She has obviously been hurt really bad and she is putting all men into one category.. Been there done that....
So, the same could be said about woman.. If a man is burnt really bad by a woman , then he also may think that all woman are bad..
Its a psychological mess your friend is going thru and as soon as she realizes that not all men are bad , she will be better off..
I know this from experience ... I hated men at one point in my life and Love , no way at one point.. Now , I have a wonderful hubby I have been married to for 16 years ... Its been hard for him cuz he had the crap all the others left behind,,,, He got the anger and so forth... I believe I found the best man in the whole world cuz he didn't leave me when I was mean....
2006-11-21 08:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Joann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are both bad men and women out there who are just hurtful but not everyone is as bad as others and when you run into too many bad that makes all of us look worst then we are when it isn't really like that. Hurt causes bitterness and too much of it causes trust issues your friend may have been hurt a little to much or wasn't ready for the little or big amount of pain she received. Love is like a game of chance are you willing to risk it or stay or become a evil bitter person and go into the category of the bad ones.
2006-11-21 11:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nunya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the world's problems arise from men's need to compete. Maybe some day there will be a pill to suppress testosterone, then maybe women won't have to worry about being beaten and murdered and raped, etc. Most men are not like that, but most men are willing to ALLOW the bad guys to continue competing and destroying.
2006-11-21 11:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Miz Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe when she was a little child bad men "bite" her. not all wamen or men are bad. even not a man or a woman is bad. there's both good and bad sides of EVERY person. and depends which side you see more or which side people shows you. but make sure that there is no pure good or bad person. the worst person you ever seen must have good sides olso and the best person you can describe as an angel has the evil side
thats why we are not devil or angels, we are human making us keep both side on us
2006-11-21 07:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by takeiteasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a huge problem in society, people try and throw things into little categories, and things are never that simple, i've met some really cool girls i get along with great who aren't 2 faced, and i've met some really cool guys that aren't just jerks looking for sex, people are people..all different types, never judge the outside.
2006-11-21 07:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by chordface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither men nor women are bad in world. Good or Bad are type of behaviours and they present in all human beings in some extent.
Love is gift of god to human beings. Only one thing in world, due to which world is safe uptill now, which is Love. Hatress, jealousness, anger, desire, sex, overconfidence are six enemies of human. One power is there to defeat these enemies, which is Love.
2006-11-21 11:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by manoj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably bitter about her past relationships. She needs some sweet lovin' that's all. Tell her, "Soggy Waffles is a man and he's not bad because he gives people good advice all the time." *note* I'll give you bad advice if I don't like you. Worst case scenario, she could always be a lesbian and still be happy.
2006-11-21 07:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by Soggy Waffles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people will rise or fall on their own merits despite their gender. It is human nature to exhibit traits good and bad but ultimately each person will need to choose their own path in life. This will always involve choices along lifes highway.
2006-11-21 07:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by G-Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my view nobody is bad. It's the perception of one about the other. Ask your friend to get a opposite sex friend. Good friendship is the first step towards love..
2006-11-21 07:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by DM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋