in our school whenever you start a new year you switch classes and get different classmates, last year i had a best friend anyway this year he wasnt my classmate and since there are so much people in our batch its hard to stay in contact with people who arent in your class. while i was walking with my new friends he passed by me and told me to hang out with him and he was my friend so i did, but now he found new friends and he barely talks... at least not the way he used to , he always hangs out with them and doesnt even eat lunch with us anymore. What do i do?
2006-11-20 21:39:37 · 8 answers · asked by A.F.J.D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him you miss the close friendship you used to have.Ask him if he still wants to be that close to you.If you can't ask him,write him a note.Don't decide that you lost a friend until he tells you that for sure.It's really hard at any age when people move on.They find new jobs and get so busy that it's sometimes impossible to stay in touch.Don't take it personally,you are hanging out with new friends too.And he may feel the same way you do.But you won't know until you ask him.You have nothing to lose,ask him.
2006-11-20 21:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by little loved one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to keep communicating with him and maybe make plans to hang out after school or on a weekend. If he seems distant, then ask him what's up with that. Sometimes you just have to be straight-forward with people
2006-11-20 21:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, give him a gift and talk to him about your fillings. Try to do what he love so he will know that you care about him?
It will be nice to have more than one friend as you can join with his friend.But if this not works so, you must know that he doesn't love you .You must search for another friends and good Luck!Best wishes of a good life with your friends.
2006-11-20 21:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by lalau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i am in ur situation rite now.
my best fren went to another university and left me here...
durin our frenship here, we r like lover..
and mostly people think we r sister..
but then she got an offer..
she promises to me that we gonna to be best fren.
1-2 week, we still hang out,.
but then, she keep avoiding to sms-ing me or calling me..
i was da one who keep callin him but still, im feelin loneliness.
now, she never message me and i miss her alot.
wut i do is...
keep in my mind that she is still my fren n not my bestfren,anymore.
i noe she already finds someone there.
so i have to do da same..
i still got my life.
i cant just left it hanging just because of a girl..
remember that,k?
2006-11-20 21:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by MiSsY fLiRtY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, people change over time.
That's evolution of mind.
You're experimenting what's called 'being leftout' anyways.
2006-11-20 21:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Odio a los Estados Unidos! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with another group which is suitable for you. its very hard to find suitable people.
2006-11-20 21:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by trysaran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better beware.
2006-11-20 22:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh men!!! 4get that thing!! it also happens to me..but we cannot forced them if they want to be with others.... find new friends and let him jealous...lol....
2006-11-20 23:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by gen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋