2006-11-20 21:13:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please sit down with a good friend who knows you well and ask him/her to help you think through this situation. Take a piece of paper and write down all the reasons that this relationship is good for you. On another page write down all the ways that it makes you feel unhappy or insecure. Be honest with yourself. There is no need for you to rush into marriage. Take your time and make sure that she really respects you and cares for you before you take this next step. And if she is not serious about you, then step back with dignity and let her go. You can't make someone love you
2006-11-20 21:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her more than your life then why she needs to leave you?Its a strong point to be note.You might have done something wrong or she is hurt so much that she wants to leave you.Otherwise why she will loose ur love.Just talk to her and clear up all the misundrstandings----if arised any time.Its very important for both.Do not sit idle and thinking and thinking.Are you sure that she is going to leave you?who told you?Make it confirm that she is going to leave you.
2006-11-21 05:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have to understand what her position, what problems she has because it is not so simple to say I love you, but her circumstances will not permit to come out whenever you call her. May be her circumstances are such that even if she wants to come out with you , circumstances are not allowing to do so. May be both are loving each other but you should try to be in her shoe and understand what she really needs. If can really take care of her and marry then proceed to her house and discuss the same with their parents and get married all will be solved
2006-11-21 06:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi There,
It is said that "If you love someone let her go, if she come back she is yours, if she wont she never was"
So friend try everything possible to make her realise how much you love her. Speak to her. But if she still wants to go than let her. Life moves on. No matter what. I know it will hurt but you have to move on in life.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-11-21 05:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do one thing be first u show her udont need her she think u cant leave without her utold her if she leave without u u can stay without her if she not need u u leave her first be brave all this happen with me in past i understand ur feeling go ahead its hard but not impossible i always with u u needmy any help mail me bye
2006-11-21 06:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by geet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you actually? You become a dumped guy for once, then a sad wife and then a poor husband again. U ask questions as a guy and have a girl's name RIYA????? Please explain. And yes it is right, if you really love her/him let him/her go , if she comes back to you she is yours, if she doesn't she never was.
2006-11-21 06:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by vanchit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't know the meaning of love...
does your meaning of "I love my wife"...means the same as "I love icecream"?
You like icecream means that you love to eat ice cream and that you it satisfies you..and if its the same for your wife then you don't love her..you just love yourself
You can say "I love her" only if you care for, undersatnd her feelings, be with her when she needs you...
2006-11-21 09:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by 28March2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go.
Love never expects anything in return.
Letting her go will make you look more strong & eternal in her eyes and thoughts and feelings.
2006-11-21 07:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you must let her go if its not right for her then its not right for you either. You will benefit in the long run
2006-11-21 05:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dont wanna live with u than let her go
2006-11-21 09:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by kiddu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋