2006-11-20 21:12:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be sensitive. First, try to talk to your partner about why she is resistant to spicing up your sex life. Perhaps, she’s already satisfied and has no desire for more. However, the more likely reasons are that she either carries around a number of sexual taboos about what’s okay and what’s not, she’s had difficult sexual experiences in her past or she is experiencing problems in her relationship with you which prevents her from fully letting go in the bedroom. You need to identify the source of the problem and be willing to try to solve it with her. It may mean learning how to relate to her in a way that is more sensitive and caring. Professional counseling might be necessary to sort out the problem
If your partner has certain inhibitions which she wants to overcome, let me suggest the following steps. You should know that one of the major obstacles to a mutually fulfilling sexual life is the feeling of being pressured and rushed.
The first step then is to slow down. Try gently massaging your partner. If you find her tense, help her to relax by caressing her slowly. Communicate your love and caring through touch. The more you do that the more she’ll be open to you.
If she feels ready, talk together about your desires and fantasies. Remember the most powerful sexual organ is the mind.
Read books and view videos together which can instruct you on how to add excitement to your sexual life. If you both agree, find a new sexual technique to experiment with. Again, don’t go too fast. Constantly check with your partner if she’s okay with what you’re doing.
It takes time and commitment to develop a satisfying sexual relationship. Hang in there and you’ll eventually succeed.
2006-11-20 21:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to her. Communication is very important between couples. Find out what is worring her and what is she afraid about. If she has some problem than just seek some councelling together.
Good Luck
2006-11-21 05:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
riya, just make your partner uncomfortable. They will volunteer a request for the change
2006-11-22 00:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by RASUNA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to come to her direction so that she will not get angry, some times u convince and tell her that always I will not listen, u also should understand me
2006-11-21 06:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-22 01:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Freddie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i suggest give her book kamasutra by vatsayan tell her to read it.
2006-11-21 08:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, watch some light porno movies,then go to some lonely places have some drinks eventually she will agree .
2006-11-21 09:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by bestof me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋