2006-11-20 21:11:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to each other. Since you’re the one who is aware of the problem then I would recommend that you initiate a discussion with your husband about your sexual concerns. If you’re afraid to, then the problem that you just mentioned is not confined to the bedroom. Sex is communication and more often than not good sexual communication is reflective of good overall communication between partners. If you’re afraid to create conflict, than you will most likely shy away from one another in all areas of your life.
If your husband responds positively to discussing your sexual relationship, then you’re on your way to solving your problems. Not knowing your sexual history, I can’t comment on your experience and knowledge about sexuality. One thing you should know is that very few couples intuitively know how to pleasure each other. To create a mutually satisfying and loving sexual relationship takes awareness and knowledge. The two of you need to spend time reading about sexual techniques. By doing so, you can learn the "what and how" of sexual pleasure. If you go to our Bookstore, you can find a number of excellent books on sexuality.
Like with the above couple, I would recommend that you spend time exploring each other’s bodies. Ask each other what it is that is sexual stimulating. Demonstrate by taking your partner’s hand and placing it on the exact pleasure spot. This is the best way to improve your sexual connection.
2006-11-20 21:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the many things that separates man from animals is that man has sex not just for reproduction but for pleasure. Man was meant to experience pleasure from sex. Talk with your husband about this. If he is religious, any good pastor will tell him this. God wanted man, in marriage, to enjoy sex and to have sex for pleasure. If he isn't religious, it still applies.
ask him what he likes, tell him what you like. Take the lead and do something you want to do. Ask him to do something you want him to do. Maybe he doesn't have much experience, which you should be happy about, and feels inadequate. The neat thing about this is that you both get to teach the other about what you like and learn on each other. You don't come into the marriage well experienced. Use that to your advantage.
2006-11-20 21:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused. In your last question, you asked about your wife and this question you asked about your husband. Confused about your gender. Anyhow, you should have a double bed connected by hinges and turn your husband/wife, give oral sex and watch some XXX.
Hard Rock has already answered your question. No chance for ....
2006-11-21 17:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you are both going to have to sit back and talk in a nice relaxed atmosphere. Choose a time over a glass of wine or two get cuddled up and just talk
2006-11-20 21:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 07:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
great, all the more reason to get deeper into each other.
start by talking to each other..............................
stop using the bed & go for the garage, the lawn, the balcony the loo, the attic, the beach, the carpet, the middle of the room & see how you connect.
2006-11-20 21:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sarang 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a sex class together or maybe get a book that shows you what you can do and then ask him what he likes.
2006-11-20 21:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by summertime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the history and cookie files on your computer for some clues...
2006-11-20 21:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what your question is. Be more specific if you want advice. That is the only answer that I can honestly give you
2006-11-20 21:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a sex shop & buy some sexy underwear and tell each other what turns you on. Tell him what you like!!!
2006-11-20 21:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica Rabbit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋