I am 38 i have always been less fortunate when it comes to _enis size, (3 in soft) how do i finally accept that this is me and it will never change, i have been really self concious all my life. It works good but it sometimes makes me feel really inferior, I have never been able to ask this to anyone especially on here.
2006-11-20 21:01:59 · 8 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My boyfriend is the same, and honestly, for a lot of girls, bigger is NOT better. He's perfect. Also keep in mind, it's the foreplay that is the most important part of getting a girl off. If you start to obsess about that as much as you obsess about your size now, you'll be amazing in bed!
2006-11-20 21:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat alot of avacadoes and medte it can still grow at the age of 38.l gave up on my -enis for many years because l'm asexual and l felt it was useless to have a big -enis. So it shrank as l became very depressed l decide l might start using it someday so l'm using this healthy method to get it all working again it has grown to an even larger size than ever before at the age of 41 l look and feel young. Eat alot of avacadoes wipe them all over your skin and hair it alsoprevents hair from turning grey.But you also must eat a healthy vegan diet.
2006-11-20 21:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to shake body image issues once you have them. A 38-year-old sense of self isn't going to be unraveled overnight. But with work, it can be undone.
Amazon has a bunch of books on body image. Why don't you take a look?
http://amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw/002-9518803-0585642?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=body+image
The Body Image Workbook, for instance, looks very good:
http://www.amazon.com/Body-Image-Workbook-Harbinger-Workbooks/dp/1572240628/
By the way, the average size for a flaccid penis is 2 to 4 inches. Your penis size couldn't be any more normal. But even if it were only an inch in length, it would be perfect as it is.
I would also recommend you check out the Work of Byron Katie.
Go to http://www.thework.com >> The Store >> Books, CDs, & DVDs >> Videos & DVDs >> The Perfect Body
The DVD costs $25. Or you can email me and I'll burn you a copy for free. (They don't mind if you reproduce their material.)
Or just check out some of Byron Katie's books on Amazon, learn the process she teaches, and apply it to your body.
Good luck!
2006-11-20 21:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about the flaccid length? It just doesn't matter.
Plenty of people are 1- 2 in or so soft, but 5 to 7 in when erect. It's a miracle of hydraulics. What you've got is fine.
2006-11-20 21:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Minmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size is not a big issue when it comes to performance. Dont worry about the size. Unlike men women see this from a different angle. You have a bright future ahead.
2006-11-20 23:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by <º))))><.·´¯`·. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three inches, soft, is normal. besides women are not like men, they see things differently. Don't think of yourself in a bad way as you seek a mate, thats the key to accepting yourself.
2006-11-20 21:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone that appreciates who u are
2006-11-20 21:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by ekimollidrac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just appreciate what god gave to u and one day someone might just appreciate it as well.
2006-11-20 21:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by sWe3tVaNgUrL17 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋