...stealing from your purse?
I caught her near enough red handed but she is still denying it.
I dont know what upsets me more- the fact that she stole from my purse right there in front of me when she thought I was asleep....or that she thinks Im stupid enough to believe she wasnt.
Im absolutely gutted to be honest, if she needed money she could have just asked and I would have given it to her so why would she steal from someone she is supposed to love? I havent spoken to her since but I cannot avoid her forever, Im not sure how to handle the situation, I dont know if we can still be friends cos every time Im in her company I will be watching my purse!
2006-11-20 20:47:34 · 34 answers · asked by Georgie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
personally she would have got a slap of me...you do not rip off your own...EVER...no exceptions...she is a theiving slapper...tell her to f**k off...it will hurt but you will be better off long term...friends you should be able to trust with your life and you cannot even trust her with your purse..and she has the bare faced cheek to lie on top off it...babes...find a friend who understands loyallty and the true meaning of friendship...you deserve better...slap her from me....true friendship has no limits..no boundries...i would die for my best mate...if i had no kids anyhow but they need their mum, obviously...pre kids..no doubt...a bullet, a punch..whatever..i would take it for her if that situation arose...the bullet never did...thank god..but i threw myself in front of a few right hooks for her as she did for me....she is with us no longer...the cow died on me...bless her..always....
2006-11-20 20:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you regard this person as a close friend then talk to her and ask her if she is having any problems. There may be something going on in her life where she needs money but is too afraid to ask. If you are not that close then you dont have to be friends with her anymore. A trur friend should never steal from you. She should ask and I am sure you would help her out where you can.
Talk to her first to find out why she did it. There is no use avoiding each other as it will only make matters worse.
2006-11-20 20:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica Rabbit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is NOT your friend by lying to you, let alone stealing. Tell her how you feel about the situation and end the friendship, because it will never be the same between you two. I had a friend that I considered my "best friend". I did a lot for her (loaned her money, my car, and let her stay in my home). But she betrayed my trust, and I made the mistake of giving her the benefit of the doubt, and the friendship was never the same. After about a year, I got tired of taking the knives out of my back from all of her back stabbing, and started to distance myself from her....It's been 7 years now and my life has been better for it, and yours will be too.
2006-11-20 21:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tawney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most annoying thing is(i would imagine), she has compromised the trust issue. Now you can talk to her and make her aware that what she did was bang out of order, but there will always be that trust broken issue.
Personally as hard as it may be you've gotta keep her at aems length and let her know plain and simple that she broke the trust and you dont think you can ever get it back.
Easy for everybody else to say but I would hold my head up high and just be thankful that you caught her when you did. Leave it be and let her know that you aren't willing to be friends anymore.
2006-11-20 20:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Scatty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure you are 100 percent sure of the theft happening. i can't comment on your friends behaviour all i know is my fiance her purse is her life. my wages go into her account she's told me i don't need to ask to take money from it. but if she was out and her purse was sitting there and i needed smokes i'd be sitting biting my fingernails till she returned. sometimes friends are the first ones to hurt you long before enemies. and i should know 2 years in a row without an xmas or birthday card sorta drives that fact home.
2006-11-20 21:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not your "best friend" she has betrayed your trust twice once by stealing and once by lying about it. My mum was a wise old soul and she used to say "I would rather have a thief than a liar....you know where you are with a thief". You want people to tell you that everything will be ok because you are hurt by her betrayal and you still want to be friends unfortunately this cannot happen. Once trust is gone you have nothing left. Good luck..there are plenty of nice people out there.
2006-11-20 21:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by cathyjast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously can't be trusted. Nobody has a right to help themselves to your money. What if you were using it to pay a bill and you were short?
What would you say to someone in a situation perhaps, if someone had a boyfriend who was taking from a friends purse?
And then lying about it?
2006-11-20 21:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Thia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the first time that she has done this to you , If it is then I would try and find out why ? maybe there was a reason, maybe she had trouble at home that you don't know about , has she been depress about something
Some time if people are under a lot of stress then they will do things they wouldn't normally do
May god bless you
2006-11-20 21:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her why she did it, hopefully she will open up to you. Tell her you will try and help her if she is honest with you.
As long as you have done your part and offered the olive branch then you cannot do anymore than that.
You are her friend and you obviously care but don't be too generous with your help or you may get stung. As stated below friends don't still but as she is your friend just offer the help
2006-11-20 21:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter explaining how you feel, and see what she says if she keeos avoiding the subject then you are probaly better off without being friends with her as if she is not honest to own up to it she cant be trusted.
2006-11-21 03:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋