I want to make a decision about letting this guy go-out of my life- but I don't ever stick to it...I waiver and am so unstable and end up going back to him.
what do I do to make a decision and actually stick to it?
why is it so hard for me?
2006-11-20 20:23:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe its not what you really want to happen,Try to think the pro and cons of letting this guy out of your life if you think it will be best for you i think you should follow your decision,stop any way of contact on him,stop seeing him,keep away anything that will remind you of him.Don't be afraid that after you will leave him you will be alone and isolated,there's so much thing and people that will come your way much better.Just believe as they say if you lost someone,someone will come along much better that the one you left behind.Good luck
2006-11-20 20:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is in your question. You are Un Stable. Everyone has to make hard decisions. The difference is in having the resolve to stick to the decision knowing that it is the right one and not letting feelings get in the way. Obviously you had a reason for dumping him. Was it a good one? Does it still apply? IF so why are you wasting your time with him? Afraid to be alone. Need to have the security of having someone else before you can let him go?
2006-11-20 21:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little insecure, in order you love someone you have to be able to love yourself first. It is always hard to be on your own but it is better then being with someone for the wrong reasons......
2006-11-20 20:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋