im 19 years old and my mother has been smoking crack really bad can anyone help me that has experience in this field i have friends and they all say they understand but they dont heres a letter i started wrighting my mom but i havent finished i cant believe im sharing this with the whole world but i cant deal with this stuff anymore by myself
Dear Mom,
i love you so much im writing u this letter because i cant talk to u about it because i will just start crying and getting upset i want u back i want the mom that would go to every softball game and cheer for me on the sideline i want the mom who was beatiful on the inside and out who would spend time doing her hair n make up everyday but now u spend all day trying to get a hit of crack i feel so alone it feels like i have no family i know when mommom died it hurt u but it hurt me n james to do u want me and james to feel that way? the way ur going we will feel that way very soon
2006-11-20 20:07:24 · 4 answers · asked by IM LOVIN IT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my mom knows that she has a problem i use to be involved in drugs too soo i know what shes going through but i guess im just looking for someone who i could talk to because it eats me up inside and i know that if shes not ready to get help than it wont help because i use to be a drug addict too
2006-11-20 20:28:49 · update #1
IT SOUNDS GOOD AND HONEST!
MOST PEOPLE ON DRUGS DO NT REALIZE WHAT PAIN THEY ARE CAUSING OTHER PEOPLE! I GUESS IN YOUR MOM CASE SHE IS DOING THIS TO HELP WITH HER EMOTIONAL PAIN? IF SHE IS THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO GET HER FRIENDS AND FAMILY TO ALL TALK TO HER AT ONCE.
I USE TO DO DRUGS AND LOOKING BACK NOW ALL I REALLY NEEDED INSTEAD WAS SUPPORT AND TO KNOW THAT PEOPLE WHERE THERE FOR ME NO MATTER WHAT!
MAYBE IF YOUR MOTHER SAW HOW MANY PEOPLE CARED AND WORRIED FOR HER HEALTH THEN SHE MIGHT WANT TO STOP!
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2006-11-20 20:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey i am sorry that your mom is smoking crack,
But i do know if your mother won't admit that she has a problem then there is not much you can do for her,
Even thought it hurt you to see her this way and all you can do is try and get help for her, try and get her to go to the doctor or maybe you could go to your doctor yourself and ask for help, the doctor may be able to tell you were you can get help, at lease this is a start
I pray that your mum will come good and all will be well
don't give up on her for she is your mother
may God bless you and i hope you get some help soon
2006-11-20 20:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2016-03-29 03:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call your local crisis center and talk with them and tell them what you told us they can best refer you to some one who can help your mom. the letter you wrote is beautiful and very honest she may not be able to comprehend it all now but once she gets on the road to recovery it will mean alot to her. keep us posted on how things go i know this has tobe a tough road for you but i must commend you on your caring and support of your mom!!!
2006-11-20 20:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋