Do you have any problems with your foreign husband?

Question

I've been married a foreign man for over 15 years, we have been living in his country and we have 2 kids.
There are many different cultures, and I try to follow them, however I sometimes upset if he doesn't show me his understanding my difficult situation.
In here, it is very important keep in touch with the family, and my mother, father and sister (married) in low visit us and have dinner together quit often once or twice a week, this is too much for me.
The reason, to gather in my house, we have a baby sitter also doing house keeping including cooking, this make them feel easier to visit us even if I'm working full time.
I have agued with my husband many times, however he doesn't want to understand me, and just push me his (their) way.
I want to ask to people who married a foreign, what's kind of problem you have, and how you solve ?

Answer 1

I walked in your shoes for 10 long years. I solved this problem by divorcing my husband. Now I have met a love of my life (he is also a foreigner) and I am happy at last.

Answer 2

Its hard to think about divorcing with two kids.

But if u are realy not happy and you can not bear the troubles in your marriage, unfortunately divorcing will be the only solution.

You have to choose the bests of everything in your life.

Answer 3

with 2 children id give it one last shot trying to explain to youre husband how you feel .if things carry on being just the same leave and start afresh but let thechildren see theyre dad the problems seem to be between you and him try and not involve them.

Answer 4

My two gf say their mexican husbans beat them a lot.