Since i was 5 or 6 years old if i'm not mistaken,i have a sudden interest in either watching tv that shows dramas or movies that has a hero performing CPR on the heroine to revive her back to life either due to drowning,asphixiation,heart attack,etc. until now.I also loves to read medical books with CPR illustrations(female as the victim) when i go to the library.Sometimes i did mouth-to-mouth resuscitation and chest compressions on my wife for fun.My wife does admit that i'm kinda weird for choosing this as a fetish but later on she does'nt mind at all.She said she love it to since she get used to it for quite a long time.I do worry if i might broke her ribs or even interupt her normal heart rythm while doing chest compressions on her but so far she's ok.Seriously i love her so much and really don't want her to get hurt just because of my weird fetish.Is this something normal for a men to have such a fetish?If it's normal/not normal,can you guys tell me what's the logic for such?
2006-11-20 18:36:18 · 11 answers · asked by georgiasnakemaroon 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
As long as you are not pushing down too hard on her ribs, she should be fine. Back off though if she complains about you being too rough when you do compressions. This has got to be one of the weirdest fetishes I have ever heard of. However, if the two of you are OK with it, what you do in your bedroom is your business. Especially if you live the rest of your lives as normal as possible (what is "normal" though?) and cause no harm to yourselves or others.
2006-11-20 18:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by parrothead2371 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Personally I think you should talk to someone. In the meantime, stop doing chest compressions on your wife. I am a nurse, and I was a CPR instructor in the past, and I have done CPR on real people more times than I like to think about. There's nothing romantic or sexual about it. You can do serious damage to your wife's ribs, and if your hand position isn't exactly correct, you can lacerate her liver or rupture her spleen (meaning: fairly rapid and painful death). If you must do CPR, I suggest you invest in a CPR instruction mannequin. You can pound away on that until the cows come home. As for doing artificial respiration on your wife, I don't think you could do her any damage, as long as you're gentle. I just hope you use mouthwash first. I still recommend you go see a therapist, though. Or become an EMT; I guarantee the first time you have to do CPR in an emergency, it won't seem like so much fun. Believe me, it's nothing like what you see on TV.
2006-11-20 19:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by weary0918 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I have never heard of a CPR fetish ... and there's no logic to it, that's why it's called a fetish.
You need to stop doing CPR to your wife. There are many dangers that can happen from doing chest compressions to someone that does not need them. I would think if you were only pretending and not actually pushing down, it might be ok..but it doesn't sound like you're just pretending.
Seek counseling if you're willing to stop and want help.
2006-11-20 19:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by schaianne 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never heard of a CPR fetish before but yes you can do some damage to your wife doing this
2006-11-20 18:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal, you need to stop performing CPR on your wife ! There are many harmful things that could happen to her if you persist with this so called fetish of yours !
2006-11-20 18:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by g_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope you're not actually pushing down on her ribs. this could seriously damage her. just pretend for now until the real thing is needed. i don't think it's a bad fetish. we need people out there that know how to do cpr for when it's needed. you should look into volunteering as a medic
2006-11-20 18:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's the most bizarre fetish I've ever heard of. Hell if I know if it's considered normal. It's unusual to say the least.
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2006-11-20 18:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe do it a little less than you do until you can wean yourself of it, I think you may unintentionally hurt your wife
2006-11-20 19:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by devora k 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get cprgasms. Where can I meet someone like you?
2014-12-28 09:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get psychological help. Its not normal.
2006-11-20 18:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋