So resently, My girlfreind found on myspace most of the old people she knew from the town she used to live in. She got really excited, becuase she said she will be able to talk with her old friends. I found this kind of weird cuz when i lose touch with some one I just normally don't care, unless I was really good friends with them. but it wasn't just good friends she was excited about it was everybody she knew. SO is this a girl thing or am I the one that is weird?
2006-11-20 17:41:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey! I thought my husband was the only guy who was thinking like you're thinking now, in this question! He always gives me 'a look' when I go crazy over getting back on touch with my former classmates, etc. I say, "Oh my gosh, I think we're destined to become friends for life!" And he says "There you go again! And something bad happens and you come running to me and I have to fix things for you. Do me a favor and stop thinking like that, will you?" And I do admit, I'm too eager about friendships. I text my friends to say goodnight, and in the mornings to say goodmorning, etc. I'm a sweet friend, but I can see how it can be unhealthy. Like, my friends may not feel the same way about me. Like, my firends may not think that just because we ran into each other again or came across each other on the internet, it means we are destined to be friends for life.
I feel my husband, now. I can see what he means when I stop and think about it. :-)
Culture is something, too. People in different countries have different takes on friendship. I'm American, but live in the Philippines. Everyone I know who's Filipino has a 'friendster' account, and each person has at least 300 friends in their account. All the people from kindergarten to college! I think it's because community ties are stronger, the country is smaller, everything is simpler, so people stay tied together through the years.
2006-11-20 18:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That looks sketchy. She should be dishonest. in case you imagine about it, why is she unavailable each of the time? what's so tricky about calling you or texting you after paintings? she will be able to't be busy 24/7. It makes no experience. the subsequent time she is for sale, ask her what she's so busy with each of the time. that's totally well to ask. it form of sounds like you issue, because you got here to seek for suggestion from over the web. that's says lots.
2016-10-16 09:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not. Most of my guy friends really made efforts to get in touch with me again even if it was years ago since we have last seen each other.
2006-11-20 17:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by ahnnah.reynoso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it`s a girl thing. I`ve never heard of my wery old friends, and have no interest to call them. Sure I would be surprised and it would be nice to meet, but I have no special need to maintain ancient old palships that has vanished
2006-11-20 17:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the people have the same thing? IT IS A NORMAL THING
2006-11-20 18:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by NANI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently yes guys are not sentimental to some is out of sight out of mind
2006-11-20 17:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by what? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is difeerent agreed..
im a girl..and i only keep in touch with goods friends...
2006-11-20 18:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ... i would probably be happy and say hi but i wouldn't go crazy about it .
2006-11-20 17:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Aspettami28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody is different.
2006-11-20 17:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋