how did you tell your friend you like em?

Question

Cuz you know we all have probably liked a friend at one point in our life. I told her about my sexuality but didn't go as far as telling her I liked her. Well, we were at dinner the other day as friends and she joked around about us "..... ..." (sorry, keeping P.G. if you want to know details, then e-mail me) over the phone when a friend called. You know how those sexual innuendos go. Ooh, I got so turned on when she was talking like that. I should have winked at her or something, I just laughed. I am really unsure if she likes me or if that was supposed to be making fun of me. She has a silly sense of humor though, so I am thinking it was out of fun.

Anyway, back to my ?..how did you tell your friend you liked 'em? Any really good way other than "I like you" or kissing 'em...? Please help, I am confused. I want to keep this to myself, but I feel like there might be something there and don't want to live forever with regret. Other times I think I should keep this to myself

Answer 1

well, let me see

you like her and you want to tell her
a traditional and simple thing that you can't do is say "i like you"
but you can say it with your body language. you At which reflect your feelings to her, like touch her hand, hair, or her face. and say it with your eyes. gave her attention 110%
and slowly tell her that you fall for her even thought she know about your 'sexuality'
when you say it, please tell her that this is not a joke and you don't want to interrupt your friendship.

say it, just do it. and gave her a compassion and attention that she needed

ps: i want to hear more detail, can you email me?

Answer 2

You just tell her as is: "I like you"...

In high school, I had a crush on a classmate but it lasted maybe for a couple of months or so. After becoming friends, I told her I had a crush on her a few months back... And then after that, she was all over me... I mean, giving me long loving gazes, holding my hand, etc. I told her I had a crush on her because I was comfortable being her friend and vice versa. There was trust, honesty and respect in our friendship. Eventually, my crush for her came back and she became my girlfriend. Best time of my life. Sigh.

Anyhoo, to make the long story short, just tell your friend u like her, as simple as that once you're really ready to tell her. Since she already knows your sexuality then go for it. Being honest abt your feelings is probably the best rather than keeping it bottled inside. However, be prepared for what she will say or what her reaction will be, ie, if she says she likes u too, then all is good...u never know, people might surprise you... if she doesn't like u that way, ie, she just wants to be friends, then move on and just be her friend. Hope this helps so good luck.

Answer 3

Well i had a crush on my bestie... When she found out about my sexuality she became very flirtatious like we would go out for dinner and start doing the footsies (if that's what its called) Give me a hug then she would nuzzle my neck... It was driving me nuts... She ended up having a feeling that i liked her cause i use to get so frustrated when she would say certain things so she would kind of play up on it i think this is what your friend is doing.... How i told her is that we were having an argument about it (how she would act with me) at the front of her place when we both went in for the kiss : ) However nothing eventuated we just became an occasional...now she has a boyfriend and we are still besties ; ) Flirt back with her obviously she doesn't mind and see if anything happens

Answer 4

Very good question and I wish I had "the answer."

Oscar Wilde wrote that conversation is the basis for a good relationship; no wonder we sometimes develope romantic feelings for our friends. While rejection can put a strain on a friendship, you need to determine whether the pros outweigh the cons. If they do then there is no better what to ask than to be honest and open with your friend. Why prolong asking any more than you already have?

Answer 5

I kept a journal about my feelings for her. She knew ever since that I was a lesbian. And I knew that she had had a girlfriend when she was still in highschool. But she was with her boyfriend then, and I was also with another girl. Time came when I could no longer keep my feelings for her in tow. So, I decided to go to her house one night, and give her my journal. When we saw each other at work the next day, she admitted to me that she also had feelings for me ever since the day we met. We broke things off with our significant others in time, and we've been together ever since. That was running 4 years ago. Right now, we're living together, and things are even better for the both of us. A relationship is really different when you start out as friends.

Answer 6

depends on what you want to get out of it. if shes just afriend and you want more, i would tell her, but if shes a close friend and not sure if a relationship would work because of your closeness, i would be cautious with the amount of information you give. You could tell her that you like her, but maybe not get into the details and stuff so it doesn't creep her out.

I've had to hold in my feelings towards a couple good friends because there would be more negative consequences and they would be affected negatively by it. and that's not worth getting that off my chest.

Answer 7

my friend just blabed it to me. He actually said I LOVE YOU. so my advice to you is just tell them that you like them all they can say is no at least you will no how they feel. Go for it. Just tell her if you like her she most likely already knows anyway girls have a sense about that NOT all now but some do. Just tell her that is the best way to go about it. GOOD LUCK