ok! so thanksgiving day is around the corner... I bought 3 chocolate turkeys 2 of which I have planned to give to my friends...
My question: lol.... uhm *cough* I was thinkin of giving the last one to my fav teacher. I gave him a hug last week and boy! awkwardest hug ever.. don't ask why long story ;) why have a history.. nothing sexual or bad just something else
neway you guys think it'd creep him out 2 give him a present 4 thxgiving day? ...... I think It'll creep him out but other ppl like my friends and bro think it'd b a nice gesture
2006-11-20 17:06:07 · 12 answers · asked by egf 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
it would be a nice gesture, but the problem is that Thanksgiving is not a "gift exchange" holiday, so you might be sending some mixed signals with that.
If the teacher is really a good friend (i have had a couple) than no prob. but after an awkward hug situation, I'd say don't venture down that boulevard.....nothing good will come of it.
2006-11-20 17:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by BAWAGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a nice gesture, but only if it's a small gift. If the chocolate turkey is the size of an actual turkey - you might want to rethink this! However, I'm sure that he will appreciate a small gift.
What kind of teacher gives hugs these days?? Weird!
2006-11-20 17:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hug was awkward because close contact with a student may give an appearance of "something going on".
Giving the turkey to your teacher would add to the awkwardness and cause your teacher to be even more uncomfortable than he is already. This would not be a random act of kindness. I would give the chocolate turkey to someone you don't particularly like, a true random act of kindness.
2006-11-20 17:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, ethics!
It is not right for a person who is superior to actually accept any gift, except at the conclusion of the entire training course!
It would be seen and judged by others as you sucking up, or the teacher playing favorites, and harm the situation for all the students.
So, could it be that you crave attention, even of the improper kind? Could it be that you are so immature that you can't control your emotions?
Grow up. Stop annoying the rest of us.
2006-11-20 17:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the chocolate turkey for your teacher- that will creep him out, leave it alone- he is married anyway. Good luck.
2006-11-20 17:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by jyone scotani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best not to give them a gift,except maybe a card.Volunteer to help out in the classroom and always do it in front of others.Be a good example for others and he will appreciate that more.
2006-11-20 17:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so do it.....it might creep him out, but it also shows that you are a caring person, and that there are no bad feelings on your part.....
2006-11-20 17:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it to someone else, sounds a little creepy, sorry, I think its a nice gesture but no.
2006-11-20 17:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ur thinking way to hard on this, uhm"loser" give him the damm turkey and where do u even buy chocolate turkeys?????????
2006-11-20 17:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by teddy bear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats cool, go ahead.
2006-11-20 17:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by thespeakeris tooloud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋