2006-11-20 16:52:10 · 8 answers · asked by Bridhichand S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
huh?...well what the hell I'll take a stab at it anyway...do you love someone already? then marry them...if not and you are not likely to meet anyone for whatever reason and you are getting older...go for the arranged marriage...never know you might love him after a while...it could happen..
2006-11-20 16:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you trying to decide if you should marry for love, or have an arranged marriage? well thats quite a problem. if you marry for love, and he doesn't turn out as you expect, then where does that leave you? if you marry in an arranged amrriage, i can imagine how you might be unhappy if he doesn't meet your expectations. so you have to decide what is more important to you . depends on the man. be realistic, what do you think the man you love will be like in 10 years? the other guy? just think about everything you can . be informed, and make a decision on what information you have. thats all you can do.
2006-11-21 01:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by cee jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If arranged by parents who know you & the other, there is something to be said for that method. Love can be learned.
If you choose your partner, that can be fine too.
Love is a choice; a decision. The ball is in your court!
2006-11-21 00:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by ThomasR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love your spouse? or is it your culture to have arranged marriages? if you married him cause you love him then its love. but if your mother or father arranged this marriage and you don't love your spouse then its arranged.
2006-11-21 00:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows? u r the only 1 who know
2006-11-21 00:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by rafayello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arranged
2006-11-21 00:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by guharamdas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arranged.
2006-11-21 00:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell us....were all waiting
2006-11-21 01:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋