It's been many years, there has been great joy and happiness since, but it's there, I'm afraid it always will be....
2006-11-20 16:34:50 · 23 answers · asked by Brianne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It can heal if you let it.Thats the best way to go.
2006-11-20 16:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Nini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you let it.
When a relationship dies, you have to go through a grieving process which is exactly the same as when a person dies. There are several different stages to that process. If you go through it in a healthy fashion, you eventually get to a point of acceptance, then you can move on. But a lot of people get stuck at one of the stages, and therefore never get over it.
The problem is that most people don't take the death of a relationship seriously enough, and therefore the grieving person doesn't get all the support they need to complete all the stages.
If you can afford it, get some counselling. If you can't, buy or borrow a good book about getting over loss. "How to Survive the Loss of a Love" is a good one - it may appear a bit soppy when you first start reading it, but it really works.
2006-11-20 17:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but so what?
We all get tugs at the old heart strings every now and then. Perfectly natural.
Now, if you find yourself pining away for a whole afternoon and forget to pick up the kids from school, you might have a bigger problem than a "broken heart". Maybe something else is broken.
Just understand that it is an EMOTION. Feelings happen. Feelings aren't good or bad. They just are. Life is about more than emotion. And, you've moved on.
2006-11-20 16:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The people who say NO are either lying, have never had their heart broken or don't have hearts at all.
Trust me, I understand as well as anyone.
If you are a good, loving, caring person it should and will always be there. I mean, how can a real person ever forget the broken love in their heart? It's not possible, right? No! It's not possible.
I wish you the best!
Stay Up!
2006-11-20 17:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Cing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A broken heart is just like a glass dropped on a floor,it can reshape to a mosaic but can't attain the same form as it was.
The best way is live for what you been blessed with now and thank god for his kindness for blessing you with great joy and happiness as you have written.
2006-11-20 23:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can last for lifetime if you want it to be that way. It will always be in you and the hurt wont leave you until you say........... "Look, I have enough of all these and I want enjoy my life" only than it wil leave you. You are the only person to know what you want in your life.
Whatever happened in the past, learn how to let go. There are so many things you can do. You may meet new people in your life that can be better than the person that you have known before. Wound will heal but the scare will always be there for you to see. In other words, let us all learn from our mistakes but bear in mind not to repeat it again.
Along the way, we all learn and become more adult. Most positive thinking in what we are doing.
Its ok, let it go and you move forward and you never know the other side of the lane? Its hurt to let go but one day when you look back, you will smile and say to yourself, "I am glad that I let it go".
2006-11-20 19:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will always be there. There is nothing you can do about it The memory will become less vivid, but it does come back once in a while. There are things , such as places, faces, fragrances, things, musics and songs, that will make you recall. Memory recalled is like a silent movie deep in your soul. There is a distant or a blank look in your eyes., a tinge of longing and loneliness in your face. Bit whatever is there deep down , it will always be your life long secret. "LOVE IS A KIND OF INSANITY" - Q&A been hot on that one.
2006-11-20 17:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by seeker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
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2006-11-20 16:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My heart was broken 38 years ago and not a day goes by that I don't think about when I was happy.
2014-03-23 02:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to get over a lost love, but believe me you will eventually. just keep living your life and do what makes you happy. focus on yourself. make yourself happy because the only way you can make someone else happy (when you find them or if you already have) is if you're happy with yourself. and always remember: "this too shall pass".
2006-11-20 16:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by aj607 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't want to hear this but i think it will always be with you,when times are good you just put it away till something or someone makes you remember,its not so bad it gets easier with time, but when thing are going wrong its right there and makes everything seem worse...Sorry hon but things will get good again..
2006-11-20 17:13:26 · answer #11 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋