yea, i'm a guy that lives like a girl. i finally went on my first date and we had so much fun. dinner and a movie. yea, he's bi and knows all about me but he asked me out. he's really sweet and kinda shy. he said he'd call me and i so much hope he does. it's been two days since we went out. should i call him. please only answer if you can be nice. thanks so much.
2006-11-20 16:31:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
oh yea, i really wanted only girls to write. i relate more to girls and have the same feelings as a girl. thanks so much.
2006-11-20 16:37:55 · update #1
if any girls wish to chat, please e-mail. i would luv to chat and hopefully you can give me some advice. thanks so much :)
2006-11-20 17:09:49 · update #2
What can you lose? What can you gain?
I would suggest you call...
2006-11-20 16:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is my opinion but I think when you meet someone and you really like the person, there is nothing wrong with calling back or to show interest, even the next day I mean you do want to show interest right? Its been two days, u dont necessarily have to call, how about a text mssg.? an e-mail, I mean you can always write something simple like thanks for the date, had a great time, hope it happens again, something like that, a hi and bye but also a sign for this guy that you liked him, you mentioned he's kinda shy so help him a little. Good Luck.
2006-11-20 23:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by antoni_m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling Melissa....i am so glad that you found a guy that accepts you the way that you are. It's so very hard to find....i hate it when guys say they will call and they don't but maybe give him a day or two more before you call him up. If you really like him then I wouldn't leave it up to him, especially since you said he was shy. I really hope it works out...he sounds like a keeper. (shy guys can be so cute)
2006-11-20 17:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by Betty Sue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's sweet and shy, then I think you should definitely call him! Sometimes guys that are shy don't even realize that a "girl" is interested in them unless you practically hit them over the head with a hammer. This one guy, I kept inviting him to do stuff and dropping hints, but it didn't sink in until I showed up at his door on Valentine's day and gave him a gift.
2006-11-20 16:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's busy with work or something else. Either way, you should call him. Not to ask him out on a second date or anything. Maybe you can tell him that you had a great time the last time around, and then take it from there. The phone works both ways. \m/
2006-11-20 16:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is just an idea but if you don't want him to think that you're needy don't call for another date, call to wish him a Happy Thanksgiving that way you'll be able to let him do most of the talking to find out what he has to say
2006-11-20 16:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because your a man living as a girl doesn't mean the dating scene is any different from mine. If he asked you out then I would call him. Sometimes men wait on us to call even if they do want to call us. What can lose by calling?
2006-11-20 16:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should call him. I think you should try and stay calm and relax. Some men like to wait a little because they don't want to call you soon after the date in-case you knock them back. So once he is confident and has a day free he'll call. and if he doesn't don't stress about it babe okay xoxo
2006-11-20 17:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should wait till tomorrow afternoon and give him a call... see what he's doing for thanksgiving, and or after. you can use this comming holiday to your advantage... it is right around the corner. that way he doesnt feel like you pushing it and he did ask you out anyway so maybe it your turn ... more than likely he's wondering if he should call you... i wish you good luck and happy holidays... i hope it works out to your advantage
2006-11-20 16:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by heclee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a girl as much as you are sweetie, go ahead call just to say hi. tell hime how much fun you had with him dont pressure just chat if he is interested he wil let you know, if not then its his loss. there are plenty of other guys out there who are interested in us "girls"
2006-11-20 23:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Give him a call. I hope you have many more good times wih him. And remember, there are may fish in the pond. Enjoy yourself!
2006-11-20 16:35:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋