If you have a crush with a guy who says he has slept with over 30 girls in the past (he is 35 years old.) will you still want to go out with him? I mean, does this record mean something to you? Say, it's true.
2006-11-20 16:26:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would think you should have him tested for , Aids, Hepatitis, and take great precautions . Of course he just might be bragging, but don't take chances, this is your life.
2006-11-20 16:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by lennie 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Does the word HIV/Aids mean anything to you, he has slept with so many girls why will you still want a relationship with him
Secondly you asking for advise which means that you are doubting getting into a relationship with him never date someone if you are doubt full
2006-11-21 05:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Vengace 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully the majority of those girls were in his college years, or early 20's when he was out exploring the world and figuring out who he was. If most of them happened within the last 5 years...that's a little concerning. Otherwise, this is why you should never divulge your number and/or not keep track.
And according to American Pie, you can divide that number by 3 and that's the actual # he's slept with. :) Yeah right in this case. All the best to you!
2006-11-21 00:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well i slept with over 50 and im dont feel like a fluzzy and my wife slept with at least 70 guys ...we have more expiriance thats all....14 years and still going strong
2006-11-21 22:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he did not have a pattern of sleeping with more than one at a time (same hour or same week: either concept of poligamy)--it should not really matter what he did in the past, as long as his focus is on you now, and he is good to you.
2006-11-21 00:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Howie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that record mean something to me .it make worry about if i can catch something from him . and it make me worry if he slept with these girls when he was with someone . are was they just female friends . girls hejust had sex's with. i would be concern . i have a friend that had a guy like that and let just say she now dont have that long to live. shejust find out she have aids. so you need to find out things about him . than go from their. goodluck.
2006-11-21 01:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YUK. He obviously lacks any sense of morals, standards or character and is obviously insecure and risked getting diseases or a woman pregnant! A decent , confident guy doesn't behave like a man-ho. No, I would not go out with him. He's probably crawling with STD's.
2006-11-21 00:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have been with a guy that has slept with over thirty women, and he's only 22, he's was a player during his high school years and a little bit after, but he seems to be becoming into a nice decent mature male, and I love him now and probably always will.
2006-11-21 00:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
yes, this record certainly gives me a very bad impression of the guy--i wouldn't respect him at all!
however, if you would still like to give him a chance regardless of his past, i would suggest you get him tested for HIV, find out whether he's a liar, and play hard to get to see whether he's chasing you for sex or for a life-long relationship.
but ultimately, you'll have to decide :)
2006-11-21 01:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you think that 30 is a lot. If he's 35 and you count one-night stands, it's really not that many over 20 years.
2006-11-21 00:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
He has a track record of loving them and leaving them.He is either a player,afraid of commitment,afraid of getting hurt,or use women to put another notch in his belt buckle.No i would not go out with him.
2006-11-21 00:45:35 · answer #11 · answered by noga 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋