I mean seriously. If both parties are adults and agree to do so, why people in general are weird out about it? Especially when you are a girl/woman, more likely people will call her a slut. Personally, I will have to think hard if ever want to have a one night stand, but I won't judge others. I'm just wondering why?
2006-11-20 16:12:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some people catch the "guilty" conscious syndrome right afterwards, especially if they wake up from their drunken stupor next to the person. They might be scared of the "what ifs", or the "omg, what if they want to hook up now" types of questions.
I dont think a woman is any different from a man when it comes to having sex.
The biggest problem though in my opinion is that people dont know how NOT to talk about their sex lives to others and some dont know how NOT to gossip or judge. If everyone paid attention to their own business once in a while, the world would be a much better place.
I personally dont care who sleeps with who- especially since i get no satisfaction out of it.
Those who care about what others are doing have way to much time on their hands (or they are kids, take your pick)
2006-11-20 16:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls get emotionally attached, you just have to go about things the right way. Realize what it is from the start and know that there is a difference between sex and love, that seems to be most people's problem with attachment these days. I also wouldn't say three months is really that long without sex, but if you want to do you don't need all of our permission. Go for it!
2016-03-29 03:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the main reason is because in one night, it's not possible to know what sort of person you are sleeping with... whether they are a possessive psycho, a sex addict that won't leave you alone, a stalker, or just a freak with all kinds of diseases.
A lot of religions also teach that sex is supposed to be between married people, and religious folks get really uptight about following this teaching, because sexual faithfulness (and unfaithfulness) is often used as an allegory for religious faithfulness (and unfaithfulness) in the bible, so that the two are often mixed up in people's minds.
2006-11-20 16:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people view sex as kind of sacred. They don't want it to be fleeting and casual and only last one night. I read something about how immoral sex is a bigger sin than other sins because it's a sin that happens inside of you that corrupts your own body. Actually, I read that in the bible. So yes, we see girls as sluts if they have one night stands slightly out of jealousy, but mostly because we kind of look down on all people who have it unless it's a part of their normal lifestyle. The more people have one night stands, the less secure people feel about being able to find people who won't have them.
2006-11-20 16:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many people that have them, so not everyone feels weird about it, but opinions are like... well, you know. Some people may feel strange about because they want genuine love and settle for one night stands instead because they have low self-esteem. I don't know.
2006-11-20 16:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its d society we live in..if a girl does it,its bad but a guy its lyk an okay thing.
Well if d individual are adults...they knw what they r doing so..ppl shd just mind their own business.
2006-11-20 16:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tinnie Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God says it is wrong and fornicators shall have no part in heaven .......unless they repent.
Everyone has temptations and passion. He wants to protect us from disease, emotional pain, and getting pregnant when there is just sex and not real love. Plus since Jesus gave his Life for us, the least we can do is obey what he says.
God created sex, but for marriage.
Hollywood has made it Seem OK ...........but what morals do they have!
We will all give an account to God for our lives. The actual scriptures are in the Bible. No Sin ................No Shame.
2006-11-20 16:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by 4263 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's all depend upon the people who ate going to enjoy.. There is nothing wrong if they are agree.... People can enjoy the way as they want.....
2006-11-20 16:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people feel weird b'coz it's not accepted by the society and people r not broad minded and do the hell with people y to care if two people r comfortable
2006-11-20 16:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by mayu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't bother me one bit. What's good for the goose is good for the gander is my motto.
2006-11-20 16:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋