i have read in the bible that premarital sex or sexuality leads to destruction. i wanna know opinions here. thanks
2006-11-20 16:04:42 · 16 answers · asked by mini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not necessarily deestroys but it alters the dynamic of it
2006-11-20 16:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the two people engaged in the pre-marital sex act. I think the old ways of marriage first, then a family is the best. Couples today have babies first and then they may or may not get married. There just isn't any commitment any more and that is so wrong.
2006-11-20 16:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre-marital sex does destroy relationship. Trust is the key factor and eventually once you do get married, it isn't brand new, but I wonder and questions factors will be on your mind. Then everytime he or she talking to the other sex, does make you unsecure in your relationship.
Women are emotional creatures, and with sex, we are giving everything within us to a man in sex, Men are visual and wired differently than women, sex can be either way for him, sex can be unemotional, unattached, and scoring what he wants and satisfying is sexual urges and have no feeling or regards for a woman. But also, men once they are married, sex is everything to him, desired, respect, needed, wanted, admired, approved, cared for and loved. That is why God did not intended unmarried people to have sex, but sex is a gift for married people, and it is pleasurable, desired, wanted, needed, and just awesome because both parties are in a safe environment of trust, valued, and respect. I hope that helps you some.
2006-11-20 16:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You are so awesome to read the Bible. I lived with my boyfriend and it destroyed not only my relationship with God at the time, but the guilt was awful. I am very attractive, but it actually lowered my self esteem at the time. The woman feels that underlying feeling of not being good enough. I now am apart and my life with Our Merciful Savior is better than ever. Do what you know Our Lord would want you to do. Then your love will bloom.
2006-11-20 16:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, I am christian (in the sense of believing in God) but I support the pre-marital sex. Couples have got to know well each other before advancing toward such a big step like marriage, and they have to trust in each other, and what is better prove of trust than making love, not just casual sex.
2006-11-20 16:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by Abbey Road 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
havent read d bible so cant comment on tht, but i feel pre marital sex is a matter of choice...and we do have free will dont we? as long as we r having sex becoz we love d person...and not as a compulsion to please the man...and we r ready to face the consequeces..i dont think there is nething wrong wit it...
i had pre marital sex wit my husband, and no it did not destroy our relations...maybe it will adversely effect a relation thts not good to start wit...eill never effect a strong relationship....
2006-11-20 16:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by danny's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it leads to problems, while morally you can argue that it is wrong I think that if you truly love the person it wouldn't matter as it would be special with that person.
You should be honest with your partner though and let them know you are not a virgin, this is to protect them and you from any possible STD's and also starts a path of being honest and open. I think with good communication and love the fact you are sexually experienced will not be a negative.
Good luck!
2006-11-20 16:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know about the bible, but according to a personal experience, I don't think for a second that it leads to destruction. Maybe I've been with the right guy, but to tell you the truth, it makes us more intimate and understand each other better.
2006-11-20 16:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Pre-marital sex doesn't particularly destroy a relationship
usually time does a much better job of that !!!
2006-11-20 16:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in most cases, it only brings more drama into the relationship. any of my friends who have had pre-marital sex with their bf or gf, the relationship has ended after a mountain of drama. so I would say yes
2006-11-20 16:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never led me to destruction. I think you should know if you are compatible before you commit to marriage. Sex is a big issue in relationships. The bible is a little outdated.
2006-11-20 16:07:54 · answer #11 · answered by Toddzilla SoCal 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋