Well my gf and I have been dating for 2 years although we broke for about 2 months. We decided to get back together and everything was great. In septemeber she went back to school and we have only seen each other about 5-6 since then. We have been having arguments which I know is normal but for us is not and lately she says she hasn't been feeling the chemistry we onced had.
WE both still love each other and say it everyday and today she mentioned still thinking about getting married one day and wanting to be with me but that she wants to figure out what is wrong with us. What do we to rekindle the flame?
She also told me however that she has started to get some feelings for someone at her school. She says she hasn't acted on them because she is confused and she still loves me and wants things to work out and that she would rather be with me but I am just devistated at this news. I don't know if its a crush on her part or if she genuinely likes this guy. What should I/we do?
2006-11-20 14:37:51 · 5 answers · asked by CJ B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think that she is trying to figure it all out. She may be in lust with this other guy. I think that you need to take time and go and visit with her if possible. She may just be missing you and trying to get the attention that she wants you to give her but through someone else. I know that hearing that she is having feelings for someone else is devistating but maybe she is trying to tell you that she isn't getting enough attention from you and she is missing you more than you could ever know. She is lonely.
2006-11-20 14:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by my_immortal_love2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think this relationship is strong enough the first thing you have to analize is why you guys argue so much?...work with that first and then after that is set and done work with the fact that you need to see each other as often as you did before the break up....do the things you guys enjoyed to do together when you started...as for the other guy that could be a challenge for you or maybe if she talks about him or the things he does (could it be there is no such guy) and she wants you to be that guy...understand?...maybe she needs You to do the things she sees in this guy...
I think the key here is to take her to dinner and open up a very nice and serious conversation...you need to be open to all the pro's and con's....communication is the answer.
I hope you guys make it sounds like a lovely couple!
best of luck!
2006-11-20 22:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by karaya6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for a while and let her sort things out. See what happens before you take any matter into your own hands.
2006-11-20 22:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a old man told me one time,let her go and if she come back it was met to be but if she does not come back God Give u a better one
2006-11-20 22:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by Servant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to prepare you for another breakup.
2006-11-20 22:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋