Ok, I like this guy in one of my classes (I'm in grad school). I think he likes me, but may be intimidated because I'm black and he isn't.
Once he told me that he liked me, but he had been drinking, so I didn't take him seriously.
Any suggestions about telling him how I feel. I see him everyday, so I don't to make him uncomfortable, and I'd like to maintain a little dignitiy?????
2006-11-20 14:23:47 · 9 answers · asked by ms_n_flyte 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just be relaxed and comfortable, don't be too excited if he likes you back...that's a big turnoff. it will be good if you come off relaxed and have your act together. good luck.
2006-11-20 14:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it.
What do you have to lose. Nothing at the present time.
If a black person or one of another ethnic origin was to come to me and say that she liked me, I wouldn't think a negative thought about it. Because, how would I know if this person was or wasn't my soulmate. How would I know that the two of us could or could not have a very long term relationship without trying. In today's day and age, interracial unions shouldn't be much of a problem. Unless it is for the very closed-minded.
Now in your case, there is only one way to find out. Isn't there!
2006-11-20 22:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by dakotaviper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how much he had to drink, many guys are at their most honest after a few...You know the old saying "In vino veritas" (In wine lies truth!)
Pull an old high school / undergrad trick...ask him to study together. Or simply ask him to get a drink with you. If you arrange a daytime, happy hour drink, it seems less like a "date" and you both might be more comfortable.. You don't have to tell him everything until you are ready.
2006-11-20 22:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by BAWAGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the drunken confession seriously. If he really didn't like you, he wouldn't have said so. Drunk or not.
Ask him if he wants to go have a few drinks over the weekend. Maybe make it a group thing and just flirt with him while you are together. Just don't let him take you home if he's drunk :)
2006-11-20 22:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by toothfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what would he do if he liked someone and did not know how to tell them then be quiet and listen for your answer from his perspective!
2006-11-20 22:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in grade school and already drinking, then I think you will be wasting your time dating this loser.
2006-11-20 22:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by johnny b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out but say if you dont like me thats ok i want to be friends still
2006-11-20 22:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by Colin Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever do that girl, you know that he might played with your feelings and just waiting for you to start it off and you're framed!
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