I am a 32 year old woman and stay lonely all the time i was wondering how could i make some new friends?

Question

i am in college trying to be a social worker and i just want to live my life and not be so scared to fall on my face and all the friends i ever had has stabbed me in the back i just want to find one real friend

Answer 1

Sorry I read some of the stupid replies you received first. Its not easy finding new friends trut me. I am in my 40's and single and its not easy for me either. But I do have hopes that will change someday for me too. But I may not live close to you but IM me and we can talk. I am online most evenings and always free to chat with friends.

Answer 2

Well I'm 29 years old and I'm pretty lonely, most of the time. It's because I don't have a job and I can't exactly relate to the people around here. I don't know where you live though. Probably not around here (I'm so in the wrong place). We can talk online. I seem to have more friends online that IRL, anyway.

I agree with Beautiful Disaster. It is sooo much harder to get new friends, once adult. But at least I have myspace and ivillage.

Answer 3

Rizwan, Rizwan, Rizwan. I see a pattern in your thinking. So I'm going to make a suggestion... STOP THINKING!! STOP THINKING ABOUT HOW LONELY YOU ARE!! What you think about you bring about. You keeping yourself from finding someone special by telling yourself constanly that you are Mr. Loney and everyone else is finding someone but you. God is trying to help you but I also think you need a boost of faith. Stop thinking of the negative and only the positive. I know its easier said then done but you have to work at it. Its time to think about want you want ("I want a great girlfriend") and start making affirmations that its going to happen ("I'm a great guy and my future girl is looking for me." Or "I deserve this and I KNOW ITS GOING TO HAPPEN"). Visualizing is great also. See yourself dating like a girl a day or something. See averything going your way and if you believe, you will achieve. Do yourself a favor and watch or read "The Secret". It tells you everything and more how to change your thing to get want you would want. I reeeeeeealy hope you do this because I know you can find a great woman who you can love and and she can love you too. ...And Rizwan found the woman of his dreams and the women loved him so much and they lived happily ever after! THE END :)

Answer 4

I have found that in adulthood, it is very difficult to make new friends. I have many of my friends from childhood/teens and college, but few that I have made since. So I decided to join several service organizations that attract many women in my age group. I have made many new friends in my local Junior League Organization. And also, it feels so good to participate in activities/charities that will benefit the community and those less-fortunate, while making new friends at the same time! Good luck!

Answer 5

Is there something weird about you that would make people not like you/ want to back stab you?

College seems like a good place to try, though you are a non-traditional student.

Start going to bars and having a good time. If you don't drink, start. You're 32 and soon you will have the stink of death that guys do not want.

By the stink of death I mean you will start coming off as desperate to have kids/get married/ etc. You're still young enough to avoid this.

Answer 6

You first have got to learn to trust people. You want to be a social worker? Many of your own clients will have these types of problems. I am not in anyway tiring to lecture you. Try Church, or groups,
go to the Library and check out self help books. Keep busy active and please learn to trust. You must trust in order to have a friend.

Answer 7

To have a friend you need to be a friend,

first, hang out where quality people gather, continuing ed classes or church or try volunteering with an organization that attracts good people like habitat for humanity, and be interested in other peoples lives,

God gave you two ears and one mouth they should be used proportionately

Good luck

Answer 8

Hi Jennifer,

Here is how I made new friends when I moved to another state:

I joined a ski club.
I played sports.
I did volunteer work.

Answer 9

Find some things ( like hobbies/ interests ) you like to do, or a church/ group org. you like to join ( meet lots of nice people there).

In order to have friends, you have to be a friend.... 8 )

Good luck !

Answer 10

I am 30 and I know how you feel! I get lonely too and I am married lol! I am on yahoo messenger, message me some time. My name is angels_among_us7777