Hey, this teacher's really being a...?

Question

So this teacher of mine is ALWAYS picking on me. And its obvious. And he KNOWS he's doing it. Me and my friend (who's a girl) got out of our seats and he tells ME to sit down! Just me! And she keeps walking and he doesnt give a ****! He just doesnt like me and I dont like him and we both know that, but that doesnt mean he gets to take any excuse to get me in trouble!
And dont come back with some lame *** answer like "Be really good and THATLL show him!"
I want a real solution.
He says Im FLIRTING. Like every day he says "Oh stop flirting oh stop flirting" Which maybe I am a little but why should he care? Its not like I dont know the material I can write better than he can!
UGHHHHHHH

Answer 1

You need to understand that the more you defy authority, the closer eye the teacher will have on you. If you stop drawing attention to yourself and behave yourself in your class, it could get better, but once you are on someone's bad side, it's tough to change. You're making it out like he's just got a dislike for you, but you need to understand that teachers have 5-7 classes a day with 20-30 kids in them. They cannot allow kids to just be smart a**** or it will just distract the entire class & they lose precious time with those who want to learn. Try paying attention, answering questions, stop talking to your girlfriend... you can hang with her at lunch or afterwards. This is soooo important, adults just can't explain how important it is to do your best now for your own future. Good luck sweety :)

Answer 2

One of my best friends is a teacher, she talks to me about students sometimes for advice so maybe on both ends I can help. Teachers look for kids that stand out, that are popular or that are shy and try to bring the shy kid out of their shell and try to get the classes good side by demonstrating discipline with popular kids.

If I were you, I would hang back after class one day and say "Can I talk to you a minute?" then of course he's gonna say sure or yes. I would say, is there something that I'm doing that irritates you because I do alot of things other kids do and you only notice I'm doing it, like singling me out and I don't appreciate being singled out". You're showing maturity and respect by going to the teacher first and letting him know you are not happy with what is happening in class. You put him on the spot to reply to you and then maybe you can come to a truce, you will surprize him by being mature and taking the initiative. If it's not resolved then you can go higher and it will look good for you because you tried to resolve it directly with him before going above him.

My friend always talks about how she really likes it when kids come directly to her to talk out problems, so that's probably the best way to go. That is what I would do too if I were in your place.

Answer 3

I honestly cannot think of a solution. It sounds like he's being a jerk, but that's not illegal. Just try to steer clear of him -- really. And if you have been getting a crappy attitude with him, stop it. He's the teacher, you're the student, and there's nothing you can do to change the power structure there, so live with it. You've only got about 26 weeks of school left, right?

Answer 4

you need to talk to a counselor or your principal as soon as possible. This teacher is not handling the situation well and maybe you should be transferred in to a different class.

Answer 5

Take it up with the school administration. If the teacher has no legitimate reason to bug you, you can ask to be transferred to another class if one is available.

Answer 6

Have you tried just to ignore him.If that doesn't work.see if you can change classes.