my bf is a lesbian..and then i prove to myself that it is so nice having her in my life..i found nothing wrong with her...actually she is kind hearted, not that kind of t-bird i knew..should i stop this????
2006-11-20 13:21:56 · 25 answers · asked by boibastos10 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She's your friend and you need to stick with her
2006-11-20 13:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is not immoral or unnatural - it is just a minority. Often when there is a minority group, some people will react strongly with fear, mistrust and even hatred.
I believe that the only obligation someone has in life is to try to be a good person, everything else is just propaganda
Do what feels right - we all have that inside, but loose touch with it from all the worldly pressures
2006-11-20 21:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by IDP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are a little small minded out there....perhaps afraid of the unknown so therefore they feel better by slandering same sex partners.
What you and your partner do is no one elses business and really is not their problem either....don't you agree? I have many gay, lesbian friends and I actively lobby for their human right to live as they please and with who they please...my husband and I have often had the same quarrel and he always resorts to the Bible and what it says.
But at the end of the day, we are all God's children and he WILL acept you as you are regardless....enjoy your relationship with your girlfriend, hold your head up high and be proud to be gay....it's your right as a human being!
Good Luck with your future...but unfortunately prepare yourself for the small minded ones out there that will try their hardest to make your lives miserable...as long as you have each other, you can jump that hurdle:-)
2006-11-20 21:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is so hard to find a good mate in life. If your mate happens to be the same sex then so be it who cares what other people think! As long as at the end of the day you loave who you go to sleep with!
2006-11-20 21:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK lets start from the top. It is immoral and unnatural to have a same sex partner. I could quote chapter and verse, but I do not see this as your question. I think by relationship you mean being her friend not her partner. If I am wrong go look it up.
As her friend you do not have to condone her lifestyle. Jesus shared meals and went to the lost and was their friend. He always forgave and said sin no more. He never compromised his relationship with the Father. Never gave an inch when some one was wrong, but he loved them and people saw this and came to find the truth.
My wife works with those that are homosexuals and let me tell you they can be just as bigoted as any heterosexual. I am glad your friend is not that kind. Be her friend and maybe one day she will come to see the error of her ways.
2006-11-20 21:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by crimthann69 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Having the relationship shouldn't be the problem, its just the sex. But to me, live and let live. Live your life for god, thats the central theme behind the bible, before people got there hands on it.
2006-11-20 21:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by tmarschall 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not all people think that way, and not just people who are gay. There is much support in the hetero community, like me.
Find people of like minds and look to them, ignore the people who are not supportive and hate filled.
Peace.
2006-11-20 21:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i personally have no objection to watever sex ppl (i mean juz look at wat ppl wear now adays... *shiver*) go out with. but the impt thing is tat u r comfortable with it. don't mind wat ppl say (like those who look at disables like aliens) juz b urself, have fun. n for the world out there if u nd an ans to y i agree to tis "love is 2 ppl being stupid together" n who cares so long they enjoy themselves. infact nowdays the same sex made a better bf/ gf than the real ones.
2006-11-20 21:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jadess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very nice having such a nice friend of the same gender; so why do you want to spoil that friendship with an immoral act?
Yes. It's time to stop.
2006-11-20 21:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Roxton P 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
stop what? her being a lesbian? i doubt that you can, and are you the one thinking of having sex with her ? yoou can be close to homosexuals and not be one,and being to close to one might confuse you since she is so kind hearted.. stopping something like homosexuality is part of their life and you askin her to stop i dont think she would
2006-11-20 21:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because it is immoral according to Christian beliefs, and there are a lot of Christians. I am one, and I do believe it is immoral. However, I really could care less if people of the same sex find each other attractive and want to be together. I just don't live that way. Good luck to you.
2006-11-20 21:25:36 · answer #11 · answered by serendipity_siren 5 · 2⤊ 6⤋