I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?
Thank you!
This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter
2006-11-20 12:51:40 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
meeting people in person can be dangerous. he may seem great, but you never know. if you do decide to meet him, make sure it is in a public place with alot of people around. i would suggest taking a friend along with you as well. this is all assuming you are over 18. if you're not, then you shouldnt meet him.
2006-11-20 12:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you and how old is this man? If you are a teenager please dont go. He might not be what he says he is. And if you are a mature adult, then I suggest talking on the phone first. If you meet then do it in a very public place and dont go anywhere alone with him. But most importantly please by all means. Follow your gut instinct. If you are even a little afraid or aprehensive then do not go out with him. It can be a dangerous world out there.
2006-11-20 13:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with meeting people online. Just please meet him out in public. Drive your own car and leave in your own car. Use good judgement. Everyone acts charming at first so never go back to his place until you get to know him. Or maybe even bring someone with you like a girlfriend.
2006-11-20 12:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by ms_kiki00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be very very careful. Do you watch the news and hears what happens? Are you younger than 16? And how old is the guy? Did you ask your parents.
A. Ask if he has any friends or relatives?
B. Ask about his former girlfriends?
Please don't go and if you do bring a couple of friends, and YOUR OWN CAR and MONEY, and an escape plan route.
I would go only with fear and trepidation.
2006-11-20 13:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by DREENA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful! Many times people online aren't who they seem. Then again, he could be wonderful! I'd take someone with me the first time you meet. If he doesn't understand that, then he's not worth it.
2006-11-20 12:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else, play it safe, if you meet him do it in a public place, and go home alone.
2006-11-20 12:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by anjel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does your heart say
follow your heart
but let someone know where you are
and use protection if you deside to go
and it get's romantic
2006-11-20 12:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by m_soulliere 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you feel comfortable goin then go but otherwise just politely let him know you wanna wait.
2006-11-20 12:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is not safe EVER. chat with him online, but keep it online. politely say "thanks, but no thanks, Im busy this weekend."
2006-11-20 12:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by diamonds_are_forever<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋