He says he loves me, and i believe it. He's the sweetest guy ever, but when it comes to sex it like he's a whole other person. I really don't know what to do about this. My friend all say i should do it, and i love him, but i don't think i'm ready. He keeps saying that if i loved him i'd give in. My friends say that it feels good and that i should do it, and that it won't hurt to do it once. I'm only 16 and really confused. I've asked my Mom, and not to be mean but she's kind of a slut, and says that i should do it. I'm scared and not sure. I love my boyfriend and think he's the sweetest and most romantic guy i've ever met. I don't want to lose him. So, asking all the other girls out there, please help me. What should i do?
2006-11-20 12:49:29 · 10 answers · asked by Kira 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
as a guy if I loved you I would wait for you to be ready. this guy doesn't love you he just wants in your panties! don't give into him and please divorce you mother as soon as possible.
luv kby xx
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2006-11-20 12:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do not do it!!You will regret it and it only takes one time to get pregnant.The way he sounds I am sure he will talk you into not using a condom.Make him wait you are not ready and if he leaves you oh well to bad to sad for him. You are worth lots more then becoming a object for his pleasure. Oh! bye the way whats up with your mother?I have two girls and I would never give them that kind of advice. You sound very smart you know right from wrong..
2006-11-20 13:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by HOT CHICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously say no...your friends aren't the ones who have to have sex with him, your mom is not the one having sex with him...you are. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't do it. You don't want to regret your decision in the end. If your boyfriend is "the sweetest guy ever" and loves you then he won't care. Sure, physical is somewhat important in a relationship, but its the emotional and intellectual part that really make the relationship...Good Luck! Be true to yourself!
2006-11-20 12:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Requirements for Sex:
1. At least one party needs to have a JOB (If you are a single woman, it's strongly recommended that you get a job)
2. Both partys need to have a mutual agreement to have sex, If one party feels pressured, then it's a no-go.
3. Both partys need to be well-educated on birth control
4. Both party's need to know how to protect themselves from disesases
If you meet these basic requirements, have fun and be smart.
2006-11-20 14:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always learned that if you have to talk yourself into doing something, then you probably don't really want to do it. you need to follow your heart. If you are unsure, you should wait. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't be pressuring you. Forget the fact that you could get pregnant or get an STD, the fact is that if he really cared about you, he would know that you aren't ready. Also, I've learned that most guys respect and like girls who save themselves. You'll be better off if you wait, I promise.
2006-11-20 12:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, he said that if you loved him, you would give in? First of all, love and sex are two totally different things. If he loved you and really cared about you, he wouldnt be pressuring you into having sex with him. This sounds like he is more interested in your body than your feelings. From another girl, I strongly suggest avoiding sex with him. If your gut is telling you you arent ready, trust yourself, not him.
2006-11-20 12:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget this rambling on onn on about how sweet this guy is use your head you have told us your 16--- dont give inn- until your reaady hons ask yourself are you ready too raise a child yet if you become pregant?? can he support it do you have jobs?? think about the big picture hons if you become knocked up with a child--- think long hard are you ready for that step yet??
2006-11-20 12:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him the form you experience! in case you do unlike him grabbing at you ask him 2 end. If he would not end you should do away with him. how are you able to admire genuinely all and sundry in case you first won't be able to admire your self adequate to tell somebody something you experience is important!?! All females ought to have admire for themselves and their bodies.
2016-11-25 21:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it
you will know when your ready
keep in mind also
protection
2006-11-20 12:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by m_soulliere 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
at least do it once, see how you feel.
2006-11-20 13:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋